"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vincent

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Since when has this become the Don Juans Religious Discussion?

I mean really, you go into the Anything else and theres a 6 page long christianity discussion, and frankly, even though it is anything else, its pointless.

I consider religious discussion exactly the same as political discussion. Serves no purpose and only agitates people.

Hopefully someone else feels the same as me.

So what i'm asking is just do the same thing you do for political threads, on the pointless, christianity thread.

Unless there is a DIRECT link to Don Juanism in the thread, not general, but a specific example. Please close them, they're pointless and i'm sure you don't need the unnecesary bandwith.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vincent

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Perhaps, but are they really necesary? Do they prove anything?

When they start moving into other forums is when i draw the line
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by Vincent
Perhaps, but are they really necesary? Do they prove anything?

When they start moving into other forums is when i draw the line
Show links to them moving into other forums and they will be taken care of.
 

Nocturnal

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Originally posted by Vincent
Perhaps, but are they really necesary? Do they prove anything?

When they start moving into other forums is when i draw the line
Are any of the posts in anything else really necessary? Is even 50% of the stuff on this site really necessary?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJBen

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
Are any of the posts in anything else really necessary? Is even 50% of the stuff on this site really necessary?
Bingo. But we still laugh at the funny stuff, get p*ssed off at the annoying stuff, cry at the bad stuff and celebrate at the groundbreaking DJ stuff.

Personally, I've stopped reading everything to do with T.W.A.T [The War On Terrorism] and Christianity. My life's got a lot better :)
 

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here's an idea

maybe do what happened to masterbation threads. close all of those threads except two or three.
 

Vincent

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I just feel that if they want to discuss religion, find a religion forum.

If they want to discuss Don Juanism, do it here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If it's under "Anything Else", then who cares. It takes more effort for you to click it and read the post than it does for you to ignore it --- so try that instead. It's what I do, and it works just fine. Not once have I thought about any of the religion threads until I came across this thread complaining about them... kthxbye
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Haha, of course you give me a link in the HS forum where I have no power.
crazykid, I'm frankly disappointed by your lack of motivation and ambition. Why aren't you a HS mod yet? Is General Discussion, Don Juan Tips, The Wingman Forum, and Anything Else all you can really handle? Come on, buck up a little!
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
crazykid, I'm frankly disappointed by your lack of motivation and ambition. Why aren't you a HS mod yet? Is General Discussion, Don Juan Tips, The Wingman Forum, and Anything Else all you can really handle? Come on, buck up a little!
I'm disappointed myself. I was hoping for Admin status by now. :p
 
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