Religion Interfering with Sex?

[LikeASuperstar]

As most of you can tell . . . I am new to this forum. However, I am not new to gaming. Nevertheless, I have found myself in an interesting position with a girl that I am currently "getting to know." Over the past few months this girl and I have been having a wonderful time with one another. And just recently, she told me that she doesn't want to have sex anymore because of her "religious" beliefs. She claims that this is something that she has been fighting with for a long time. And though she loves having sex with me, she feels it's something we should not do anymore. The strange thing is, we've had sex several times already. She always enjoys - seemingly more so than me - but then she always pulls this guilt trip on me. Almost as if I duped her into sleeping with me. Anyway, with all the discussion we've had in regards to this intimacy issue I am finally at the point were it is either sex or next. Now, I don't want this post to come across as if I am all about sex but . . . lets face it. Sex is very important in any relationship. My question to the other Gamers out there is; What do you think I should do to solve this dilemma?

 

[EFFORT]

As most of you can tell . . . I am new to this forum. However, I am not new to gaming. Nevertheless, I have found myself in an interesting position with a girl that I am currently "getting to know." Over the past few months this girl and I have been having a wonderful time with one another. And just recently, she told me that she doesn't want to have sex anymore because of her "religious" beliefs. She claims that this is something that she has been fighting with for a long time. And though she loves having sex with me, she feels it's something we should not do anymore. The strange thing is, we've had sex several times already. She always enjoys - seemingly more so than me - but then she always pulls this guilt trip on me. Almost as if I duped her into sleeping with me. Anyway, with all the discussion we've had in regards to this intimacy issue I am finally at the point were it is either sex or next. Now, I don't want this post to come across as if I am all about sex but . . . lets face it. Sex is very important in any relationship. My question to the other Gamers out there is; What do you think I should do to solve this dilemma?

sex or next.......just be honest with her, tell her that sex is something you need in a relationship and if she can't provide that then its over.

 

[KontrollerX]

No sex= no relationship.

Next her.

Also don't let her or anyone else guilt trip you in this way.

You are not "using" someone that has "consentual sex" with you.

No, not at all.

In reality you are using eachother to do exactly what the both of you have agreed to do via hormones, attraction and sexual desire.

That "using" garbage is a standard feminist guilt tripping false argument.

The lesson to be learned here is only go for girls that have the same beliefs or lack of beliefs as you do.

You get seriously involved with some religious chick all you can look forward to is her trying to "save you" all the time "get you to join her religion" and if you go even farther down the rabbit hole and get married and have kids she will force her brainwashing religion on those kids regardless of your wishes which may lead you both to divorce or live out a bitter marriage constantly arguing over beliefs and the kids will be none the better for it having gone through their parents constantly fighting as well as the psychological child abuse that being indoctrinated with any religion is.

So avoid religious chicks for everything and anything.

Don't even use them for a fvck unless you are absolutely sure they are only religious for family and title reasons and don't actually believe in that bullsh!t.

Also if some chick tricks you into getting her pregnant do not be guilt tripped into marrying her. If you didn't want to be a daddy beforehand you likely don't want to be one after she gets pregnant so there's no reason at all to marry a chick in a situation like this.

You'll already be court ordered to pay child support, so avoid giving her the alimony payday as well that a marriage to her worthless ass would bring.

So yeah just giving you some tips for the future to look out for.

Also you can discourage a girl from going through with any pregnancy she may have with you if you tell her that if she does that you'll quit your job and go work at Mcdonalds or any other place that is low paying since then the only money she will be able to steal from you via court order will be a pitifully small amount which sends the message to her that her pregnancy will not equal the payday that she hopes for nor will it make you stay with her.

 

[ketostix]

I agree with the other replies. She is playing a manipulative power move more than likely. It's not even really about having sex as much it is about her trying to take complete control. What is the point of her stopping sex with you now and still remain in a relationship? She's already had sex with you before and she isn't a virgin. I doubt she seriously going to stop having all sex until she's married.

 

[Lord Shinra]

Wow, those "religious" girls piss me off.
I left my religious beliefs back in 1999, which weren't many but I decided to cut going to the house of worship out completely over "political differences".

My current STR is always trying to get me to go with her, to which I responded:

"You never see me picketing outside your house on Sundays, so why you gonna try and get me to abandon my beliefs?"

Never fails.

 

[LikeASuperstar]

I can't help but laugh because you've summarized the past several months with this girl in about one sentence. She's already asked me to attend church with her. She's already asked me to pray with her. And she's already subliminally hinted at being married to her if all is well. It's so funny but not funny - if that makes since?! . . . Anyway, I am going to tell her the truth before I "next" or "sex" her. All other opinions are still welcomed.

 

[Lord Shinra]

I can't help but laugh because you've summarized the past several months with this girl in about one sentence. She's already asked me to attend church with her. She's already asked me to pray with her. And she's already subliminally hinted at being married to her if all is well. It's so funny but not funny - if that makes since?! . . . Anyway, I am going to tell her the truth before I "next" or "sex" her. All other opinions are still welcomed.

Honestly, I say go on strike.

Don't "next" or "sex", but go on strike. Do nothing sexual with her, and eventually she'll come around.

I think Mystery uses that ****, called a "freeze out"

 

[LikeASuperstar]

A "Power Move" huh?! That's what I am/was suspecting. It's funny because one day I told her I didn't want to have sex with her anymore and she said "Why? Is it something I did wrong?" I said "Why does it matter if you don't want to have sex with me anyway?" She said "But I have my reasons. You mean you'll never have sex with me?" I said, "I have my reasons too!" It seems like were all on the same page when it comes to my dilemma. In fact, next time things are getting hot and heavy I have the perfect thing to say to her.

 

[KontrollerX]

For another "welcomed opinion" make sure any marriage you enter into has an airtight prenuptual agreement made beforehand.

You may be a young guy now and think well marriage wouldn't be so bad to go into without an agreement as what money is there to take from me should it end?

Well keep in mind a marriage can go for a while and chicks have those paydays in the back of their head and if they can keep you married to them long enough for you to build up a substantial amount of money they can begin divorce proceedings when they know that the half of what they'll get can set them up for a long time.

So prenup before any marriage you enter into brother.

Don't fear a chick reacting angrily to you suggesting this as if she does that she wasn't considering marriage with you for reasons of love anyway.

Make this clear to chicks up front as you start to get serious with them in the framing of any new relationship to weed out all the golddiggers and morons that would be offended by you making this reasonable move to protect yourself.

 

[LikeASuperstar]

I've been attempting to do a "Freeze Out." The problem is every time she's around me she'll ask for a kiss. Or a hug. Anything to get close to me. The worst part about this entire situation is that we aren't even in a relationship. Nevertheless, she still has these relationship standards on me. If I were to tell her right now that I made out with another girl. She would be devastated. Interesting, isn't it.

 

[Lord Shinra]

I've been attempting to do a "Freeze Out." The problem is every time she's around me she'll ask for a kiss. Or a hug. Anything to get close to me. The worst part about this entire situation is that we aren't even in a relationship. Nevertheless, she still has these relationship standards on me. If I were to tell her right now that I made out with another girl. She would be devastated. Interesting, isn't it.

Ahhhh, so I see you're losing power in the Senate hahah.

My rule with multiple plates is never talk about the other ones, and do your best to run into them. My FBs/STRs know I'm seeing other people, but its one of those things I never talk about.

 

[LikeASuperstar]

Losing the power of Senate. That's funny. Although, I never consider myself to be losing in any situation. As far as I'm concerned, she will be missing out. I have far to much to offer. That's not to be mistaken for being ****y but rather confident in myself. Anyway, I will never ever mention to her that I have or have not gone out with other women - intimately of course. It's just a hypothetical situation I was presenting to the readers. But that power of the Senate gag still has me laughing. Haha!