Ok i have a friend here, he's one of my closest and we have a business together.
He has a girlfriend, who is iranian, she's muslim.
He is Christian.
Now this problem came up when he met her about 8 months ago.
I told him not to get into it because it will affect him in the future, should they get serious. But he, at the time, assumed it would NEVER get serious.
But as you know it, it did. To a point where they have decided to move in together. Again, i advised against it, he said he cant help it he has his reasons.
1. She's muslim, her folks do not like him, he's Christian.
2. She's muslim, her folks do not let her out of the house, so to be able to see her, she's just going to move in with him.
3. He thinks more s@x since they live together (i laughed)
4. He assumes things will balance between them.
Now that was a couple weeks ago that we talked.
I advised him against moving in but did not advise against dumping her. I have to admit she's a good girl, ive met her, she does not play around, she's a caring chic, but she's not MY girl, so i dunno more than the facade in the front. He also says she treats him very well.
Yesterday we were shooting hoop and he told me that they were going to move in much earlier than he thought. BUT she had had a talk with him.
she had straight up asked him to convert to islam. He's staunch Christian and believes in his faith and said he doesnt know what to do. He feels that she is giving up alot, like her family (if she moves in with him, her family will disown her) and he doesnt know how to handle it.
he basically told me, he does not want to change, at all no matter what. but he also does not want to give her up. I told him he cant have both, she'll have to give in because a man should never EVER give up what he believes in for his chic. Thats not just weak but also its your belief is what makes you YOU.
so anyway he's stuck.
I felt bad that i couldnt give him any more advise on how to keep his cake and eat it too.
Any advise?
Ive told him
Break up with her. Wont happen.
He has a girlfriend, who is iranian, she's muslim.
He is Christian.
Now this problem came up when he met her about 8 months ago.
I told him not to get into it because it will affect him in the future, should they get serious. But he, at the time, assumed it would NEVER get serious.
But as you know it, it did. To a point where they have decided to move in together. Again, i advised against it, he said he cant help it he has his reasons.
1. She's muslim, her folks do not like him, he's Christian.
2. She's muslim, her folks do not let her out of the house, so to be able to see her, she's just going to move in with him.
3. He thinks more s@x since they live together (i laughed)
4. He assumes things will balance between them.
Now that was a couple weeks ago that we talked.
I advised him against moving in but did not advise against dumping her. I have to admit she's a good girl, ive met her, she does not play around, she's a caring chic, but she's not MY girl, so i dunno more than the facade in the front. He also says she treats him very well.
Yesterday we were shooting hoop and he told me that they were going to move in much earlier than he thought. BUT she had had a talk with him.
she had straight up asked him to convert to islam. He's staunch Christian and believes in his faith and said he doesnt know what to do. He feels that she is giving up alot, like her family (if she moves in with him, her family will disown her) and he doesnt know how to handle it.
he basically told me, he does not want to change, at all no matter what. but he also does not want to give her up. I told him he cant have both, she'll have to give in because a man should never EVER give up what he believes in for his chic. Thats not just weak but also its your belief is what makes you YOU.
so anyway he's stuck.
I felt bad that i couldnt give him any more advise on how to keep his cake and eat it too.
Any advise?
Ive told him
Break up with her. Wont happen.