"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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crossboss

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I am always extremely stiff. Way stiffer than others...How do you fix this...Especially before going to a club?

I am guessing yoga, to meditation. To relaxing music?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Music..get something to get in the mood. Bring friends your comfortable around. Get a couple drinks to ease yourself up in the club, or drink beforehand. Have you tried any of this?
 
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If it's music, make it something that pumps you up and ready to hit the town.

Personally, I like hip-hop, especially the ridiculous over-the-top gangsta rap. All of it is alpha male braggodocio, and it makes me feel pimpin'.

A drink or two won't hurt either.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Thanks

I am thinking dancing to hip hop before I hit the club. Would be good.

Any more ideas for long term?
 
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