"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tHe KInG93

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So I haven't had much success with girls in the past. I'm 15, a sophomore in high school, confident in who I am but I have trouble when it comes to talking to girls. I'm not the type that kisses up, but I am funny and have a lot of self respect, I'm outgoing, have no problem making new friends but I always stay in the friends zone. My area of concern is my outer game, what to say to girls how to build attraction through my words. I'll text girls, but most of the time the conversation goes dry and I'll just get to a point where I stop texting her when she begins to give one word answers. I want to know how to keep the conversation interesting, how to show that I'm a sweet guy but in an attractive way and how to tease her just enough to keep her on the edge.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jeffthechef

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Outer game comes from inner self..

fixing the outside game is a ****ing waste of time..you will merely change what you do on the outside temporarily..girls may come on to you at first...but after the first outing, they will realize you were just fronting..

do read the dj bible..and concern yourself with inner development..
 

sageproduct

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Yep, good you have a good social base and confidence to work with but I can tell you have a few misconceptions that will be corrected by reading the bible.
 
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