"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don Juan
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Don't beat yourself up. I want to say I have never given a girl a second chance but I did. I gave it to my ex-wife and it was just a honeymoon fling really. She eventually found something else which was funny because they say 90% of rebounds dont work...I guess I was actually the rebound.

I did not want her anyways but in all of my other relationships I never had the girl come back now that I think of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swift Shadow said:
You know what i looked at some of these replies and thought to myself "What do you know about relationships" ...needless to say it didn't work out for the second time, i feel like such an idiot thinking it would ever work out, now i sit here feeling the worst i've ever felt in my life.
Chin up mate!

Remember, you are not a failure by making mistakes, you're a failure if you do not learn from the mistakes you make by repeating them again.

Just remember that most relationships weaken drastically when you split for the first time and more often than not that split will not go away, the split is merely painted over and hidden, but the split still remains and will eventually resurface again and again and again which is why you need to steer clear of getting back together for a second, third, fourth time etc because you are just wasting your time.
 
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