"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't beat yourself up. I want to say I have never given a girl a second chance but I did. I gave it to my ex-wife and it was just a honeymoon fling really. She eventually found something else which was funny because they say 90% of rebounds dont work...I guess I was actually the rebound.

I did not want her anyways but in all of my other relationships I never had the girl come back now that I think of it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Swift Shadow said:
You know what i looked at some of these replies and thought to myself "What do you know about relationships" ...needless to say it didn't work out for the second time, i feel like such an idiot thinking it would ever work out, now i sit here feeling the worst i've ever felt in my life.
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Chin up mate!

Remember, you are not a failure by making mistakes, you're a failure if you do not learn from the mistakes you make by repeating them again.

Just remember that most relationships weaken drastically when you split for the first time and more often than not that split will not go away, the split is merely painted over and hidden, but the split still remains and will eventually resurface again and again and again which is why you need to steer clear of getting back together for a second, third, fourth time etc because you are just wasting your time.
 
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