Relationships.

[Titan]

I'll get straight to the point.
I can get sex whenever I want, with whoever I want. They come back for more.
Whenever I want a relationship, or more than just sex they run for the hills, why?
Eg this weekend, I gamed a HB8 perfectly, we had great sex, planned to get together etc, next thing i know, I'm forgotton about..
How can I make myself more appealing for a LTR?
Thanks

 

[lakeshore]

Dude, I feel your pain. Chicks WANT to have sex with me NO PROBLEM.

But they run for the hills at any hint of deeper affection from me.

I just don't f*cking get it. I'm not a thug or a loser or any of that...


I'd pay a lot of money for the answer.

 

[marinetti]

Sounds like both of you know how to amp up the sexual conversation like mad, but when it comes to fun and charisma (the kinds of vibes that are sexually neutral, but NOT boring) you're at a loss.

 

[Captain]

Eg this weekend, I gamed a HB8 perfectly, we had great sex, planned to get together etc, next thing i know, I'm forgotton about..
How can I make myself more appealing for a LTR?
Thanks

A second meeting is not the start of a relationship. I'd guess she was just a drunk one night stand or something similar.

 

[SandHawk]

How and where do you pick up these girls? If you always pull the girl from a club, chances are, none of them are interested in LTRs. However, if you pick up these girls in bookstores, supermarkets, coffeeshops or wherever, dating should be more common.

If a girl hands you her digits and actually goes on a 'date'/get together with you and you overescalate it(ie. have sex right off the bat), they might see you as a player who is only interested in sex, and not in an LTR.

Try playing a bit with your game. Try a few times to get a girl started, make out but don't bang her out of the box. This might give off a different signal, as in "Oh hey, maybe he is interested in my personality, and not my vagoo". If you have plenty of girls to bang, just toy around with your calibration.

 

[DonGorgon]

I'll get straight to the point.
I can get sex whenever I want, with whoever I want. They come back for more.
Whenever I want a relationship, or more than just sex they run for the hills, why?
Eg this weekend, I gamed a HB8 perfectly, we had great sex, planned to get together etc, next thing i know, I'm forgotton about..
How can I make myself more appealing for a LTR?
Thanks

go for women over 35 years old.. women younger than that are hoing around more than ever and view relationships as imprisonment unless you are a millionare celebrity type... women over 35 will still cheat on you but they will take the time to be and act like your girlfriend

 

[Bible_Belt]

fwiw, I'm the opposite. I always seem to be in a relationship. Sometimes I can juggle two or three of those at once but it never lasts long. If you can get sex without girls wanting to latch onto you, then good for you. Trust me, having the girl you brought home from the bar fall in love with you is rarely the best thing. It's just drama you don't want. What you really want is for the right girl, or at least the right type of girl, to feel this way about you. Probably you are picking out women who were not very ltr-minded in the first place. Seduce a girl who does not get laid regularly, and that will be the one who falls in love with you. I have done that a lot.

 

[DonGorgon]

fwiw, I'm the opposite. I always seem to be in a relationship. Sometimes I can juggle two or three of those at once but it never lasts long. If you can get sex without girls wanting to latch onto you, then good for you. Trust me, having the girl you brought home from the bar fall in love with you is rarely the best thing. It's just drama you don't want. What you really want is for the right girl, or at least the right type of girl, to feel this way about you. Probably you are picking out women who were not very ltr-minded in the first place. Seduce a girl who does not get laid regularly, and that will be the one who falls in love with you. I have done that a lot.

^^^great post..!!!

 

[Titan]

Wow this really is some fantastic advice- I appreciate it