"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheOnE111

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To all the pros ametuers and so on, Honestly is it really worth it? Ive bein a relationship type of guy for all of high school and had my fare share of gurls. But im kinda done with that **** now in all honestly i dont think its worth it anymore.

Ive bein burned enough now, im done. discuss this my fellow DJ's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djSlvt

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Whether it's worth it is answered slowly through out the relationship. It first begins when you pick and choose your lady right, and setup a relationship with her (frame) the way you want it.

This only works the way it suppose to work if you see other people while you're not in a relationship. That is, today you go out with this girl and fvck her, tomorrow you do the same thing again with another chick, etc.. The one that's good you can see again and test her some more.

Pimping would be what you want to do. Seeing them and that's all. That's like a definition of true Don Juan. Pick up some Too $hort CDs my man.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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TheOnE111 said:
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Ive bein burned enough now, im done. discuss this my fellow DJ's.
You may change your mind once you understand how to have a good relationship.
 

TheOnE111

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i just got out of a 7 month long one, found out she cheated on me for a month while we were together so there goes that theory. Unless 7 months isnt long enough.
 
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TheOnE111 said:
i just got out of a 7 month long one, found out she cheated on me for a month while we were together so there goes that theory. Unless 7 months isnt long enough.
There is no such thing as a hor cheating on you!!!! Hors are not loyal to anyone - she merely acted out her true character -- do you think your penis is special??? There is no such thing as "greatest" to hors!!! You are the fool to be loyal to hors -- you deserve punishment for calling a hor your "g/f" and thinking that you can have a "relationship" with hors!!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Remulak

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Relationships are fycking tough, no doubt about it. They're worth it, it's just a matter of finding the right girl to have a relationship with. There's a a lot untrustworthy women out there. I have had 4 girlfriends(at least 6 months) thus far in my lifetime. 3 out of those 4 have cheated on me, it sucks but its just part of finding a quality woman.
 

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wait until you're well into your 20s, and avoid low quality women. seriously, i'm willing to bet that this girl who cheated on you is trailer trash. find a girl with a professional degree and a healthy appetite for sex, when you're 25
 

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There is no such thing as a hor cheating on you!!!! Hors are not loyal to anyone - she merely acted out her true character -- do you think your penis is special??? There is no such thing as "greatest" to hors!!! You are the fool to be loyal to hors -- you deserve punishment for calling a hor your "g/f" and thinking that you can have a "relationship" with hors!!!!!!

well, he never specifically said there was sex involved
 

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Relationships are HIGHLY rewarding if you're with the right woman.

If you pick up any bar or club skank, good luck making it meaningful and work well. However, if you pick up a quality woman, it's wonderful. I find that most men are pessimistic about relationships until they've been in a GOOD relationship with a GOOD woman. Well, my girl and I have been together for three years and they've been the best three years of my life.
 
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