"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To all the pros ametuers and so on, Honestly is it really worth it? Ive bein a relationship type of guy for all of high school and had my fare share of gurls. But im kinda done with that **** now in all honestly i dont think its worth it anymore.

Ive bein burned enough now, im done. discuss this my fellow DJ's.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Whether it's worth it is answered slowly through out the relationship. It first begins when you pick and choose your lady right, and setup a relationship with her (frame) the way you want it.

This only works the way it suppose to work if you see other people while you're not in a relationship. That is, today you go out with this girl and fvck her, tomorrow you do the same thing again with another chick, etc.. The one that's good you can see again and test her some more.

Pimping would be what you want to do. Seeing them and that's all. That's like a definition of true Don Juan. Pick up some Too $hort CDs my man.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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TheOnE111 said:
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Ive bein burned enough now, im done. discuss this my fellow DJ's.
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You may change your mind once you understand how to have a good relationship.
 
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i just got out of a 7 month long one, found out she cheated on me for a month while we were together so there goes that theory. Unless 7 months isnt long enough.
 
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i just got out of a 7 month long one, found out she cheated on me for a month while we were together so there goes that theory. Unless 7 months isnt long enough.
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There is no such thing as a hor cheating on you!!!! Hors are not loyal to anyone - she merely acted out her true character -- do you think your penis is special??? There is no such thing as "greatest" to hors!!! You are the fool to be loyal to hors -- you deserve punishment for calling a hor your "g/f" and thinking that you can have a "relationship" with hors!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Relationships are fycking tough, no doubt about it. They're worth it, it's just a matter of finding the right girl to have a relationship with. There's a a lot untrustworthy women out there. I have had 4 girlfriends(at least 6 months) thus far in my lifetime. 3 out of those 4 have cheated on me, it sucks but its just part of finding a quality woman.
 
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wait until you're well into your 20s, and avoid low quality women. seriously, i'm willing to bet that this girl who cheated on you is trailer trash. find a girl with a professional degree and a healthy appetite for sex, when you're 25
 
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There is no such thing as a hor cheating on you!!!! Hors are not loyal to anyone - she merely acted out her true character -- do you think your penis is special??? There is no such thing as "greatest" to hors!!! You are the fool to be loyal to hors -- you deserve punishment for calling a hor your "g/f" and thinking that you can have a "relationship" with hors!!!!!!
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well, he never specifically said there was sex involved
 
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Relationships are HIGHLY rewarding if you're with the right woman.

If you pick up any bar or club skank, good luck making it meaningful and work well. However, if you pick up a quality woman, it's wonderful. I find that most men are pessimistic about relationships until they've been in a GOOD relationship with a GOOD woman. Well, my girl and I have been together for three years and they've been the best three years of my life.
 
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