Im in my 4th and final year at school, and maybe that plays a factor into it, I can't stop thinking that I should settle down with one girl, as being in a committed relationship to me seems like you are more mature and over the "hunting season" the problem is I always feel like I can do better and if I settle for one, another HB 9 is just around the corner...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Relationships = maturity?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hidden-Hand
Don Juan
No. Never. Not in a million years.mtlwlu said:
zekko
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I don't think I could be in a LTR with an HB9. I am wary of them, I feel like they have gotten too much male attention during their lives, and it has spoiled them for being satisfied in a LTR. I don't trust them, they have too many options. If you marry them, they will still be getting hit on by other men constantly. If one eventually strikes her fancy, she will divorce you and take half of your possessions. No thanks, I will pass.
starplayer
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LOL yeah sure, relationships make you a more mature person. Just like how girls always say nice guys are "mature" compared to those "immature" players who need to grow up.
It's all BS man. This has been put out for years to guilt men into settling down into relationships whether they want to or not. As if that is the "right" or "moral" thing to do and it makes them a better person. Too many guys don't think for themselves and are brainwashed to feel worthless without a girlfriend, so get into relationships just for the sake of it. This results in choosing totally unsuitable women and getting used and abused.
There's probably not much point in taking women too seriously until your mid-30s, even if you want to marry. I would also say wait till you get the rest of your life together before even considering an LTR - so many guys on here get dumped and don't know what to do, when they weren't even ready to deal with a relationship in the first place. Also you gotta screen girls carefully so you don't end up with a ho in disguise.
And the most important thing, men are designed to spread their seed. To sample a variety of pvssy. Like you said, there could always be a better girl around the corner so just have fun with them for now.
It's all BS man. This has been put out for years to guilt men into settling down into relationships whether they want to or not. As if that is the "right" or "moral" thing to do and it makes them a better person. Too many guys don't think for themselves and are brainwashed to feel worthless without a girlfriend, so get into relationships just for the sake of it. This results in choosing totally unsuitable women and getting used and abused.
There's probably not much point in taking women too seriously until your mid-30s, even if you want to marry. I would also say wait till you get the rest of your life together before even considering an LTR - so many guys on here get dumped and don't know what to do, when they weren't even ready to deal with a relationship in the first place. Also you gotta screen girls carefully so you don't end up with a ho in disguise.
And the most important thing, men are designed to spread their seed. To sample a variety of pvssy. Like you said, there could always be a better girl around the corner so just have fun with them for now.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
maturity
–noun
1. the state of being mature; ripeness: The fruit will reach maturity in a few days.
2. full development; perfected condition: maturity of judgment; to bring a plan to maturity.
Nope...nothing about relationships in there.
Let's see, I pay my bills, work two jobs, have a business, spend lots of time with my daughter, take care of my aging parents,pay taxes and follow politics like it's the playoffs. I read newsweek, wall street journal and time on regular basis...I cover my healthcare cost for my daughter, I'm helping my brother reorganize his business and I do some charity work...none of that has anything to do with a relationship. You get me?
–noun
1. the state of being mature; ripeness: The fruit will reach maturity in a few days.
2. full development; perfected condition: maturity of judgment; to bring a plan to maturity.
Nope...nothing about relationships in there.
Let's see, I pay my bills, work two jobs, have a business, spend lots of time with my daughter, take care of my aging parents,pay taxes and follow politics like it's the playoffs. I read newsweek, wall street journal and time on regular basis...I cover my healthcare cost for my daughter, I'm helping my brother reorganize his business and I do some charity work...none of that has anything to do with a relationship. You get me?
Paintballguy
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Don't ever feel like you "need" to be in a relationship because that is ridiculous. That is partly why there are so many divorces. People feel the need to be in a relationship, and they jump into a relationship with the first person they can find.
everytime that you "feel" you just have to be in a relationship, you will end up settling with a girl you shouldn't have... You will feel a lot of internal pressure to settle, so you will overlook a lot of defects that will come back to haunt you during the relationship.