Relationships International Women

[MatureDJ]

The problem is when you take them OUT of their countries and bring them to the US, the women here will assimilate them into the American female collective, and in a short time they will be no different than any other American chick who was raised here.

I've seen this time and time again with Army buddies that married 'war brides' and brought them back. One guy married a Korean chick, she was pretty hot, very sweat and submissive when I first met her.... in a 5 year period I watched her morph into a holy terror, and before long not he was out on his @ss with her whole family living in their house with him sleeping on my sofa after he had been divorce raped.

I would not bring a woman into the USA until after we had had kids and they are no longer small (i.e., younger than 8 years old). Meeting a woman abroad affords the man the great excuse that he would like for HER parents to be around when the children are young, thereby avoiding this question until her Sexual Market Value has taken a tumble, and after she has proven herself to be a fit wife.

Now of course, this would require that a man be financially independent (to whatever degree one considers that suitable) or has a job in her country.

 

[RangerMIke]

I would not bring a woman into the USA until after we had had kids and they are no longer small (i.e., younger than 8 years old). Meeting a woman abroad affords the man the great excuse that he would like for HER parents to be around when the children are young, thereby avoiding this question until her Sexual Market Value has taken a tumble, and after she has proven herself to be a fit wife.

Now of course, this would require that a man be financially independent (to whatever degree one considers that suitable) or has a job in her country.

Unless you live in a community property State, the courts will take your @ss to the cleaners if you divorce a women you brought with you from another country. YOU will be painted as a 'creepy man', who can not get an American woman and this 'poor thing' (your wife) CLEARLY was just being used by you.... you were OBLIVIOUSLY abusive.

The family courts, that are already slanted towards women, will PUNISH you for not marrying an American woman.

It is NEVER safe to bring her back, you may reduce the the chances if you bring her over as she gets close to the wall, but the risk is always there. If you marry a chick from overseas... you have to figure out a way to stay there.

 

[Urbanyst]

Unless you live in a community property State, the courts will take your @ss to the cleaners if you divorce a women you brought with you from another country. YOU will be painted as a 'creepy man', who can not get an American woman and this 'poor thing' (your wife) CLEARLY was just being used by you.... you were OBLIVIOUSLY abusive.

The family courts, that are already slanted towards women, will PUNISH you for not marrying an American woman.

It is NEVER safe to bring her back, you may reduce the the chances if you bring her over as she gets close to the wall, but the risk is always there. If you marry a chick from overseas... you have to figure out a way to stay there.

Good points.

Never considered that backlash from the courts for not sticking to local women.

Guys can't win can we?