relationships, can they make u afc?

[duttylove]

posting to u guys that have been in LTRs here.

at the begining when ur learning this stuff, only the learning matters. reactions from a girl are just reactions to be learned from nothing gets taken to heart.

when you know this stuff you are trying different methods to get girls into bed, experimenting, refining your game so to speak.

but relationships? im in an LTR but starting to think like an afc again (only in the relation ship) after i stopped with the sarging. dont get me wrong my relationship is good. i know the rules and i keep to them. her interest is very high and i dont believe she would cheat but if she does she will be replaced simple as. so if i understand this then why have i started to think insecure thoughts and get jelous. when shes out with other guys im wondering what shes up to and why shes not with me. when im out with other girls i cant seem to enjoy there company any more im constantly wondering what my gf is up to? is she at home or what? when were out together and another guy is talking to her, im thinking whos this guy how do they know each other? this is a recent development over the past month or two. before this i didnt care what she was doing, who she was talking to or where she was. (she still thinks i think like that) so whats my deal, have i commited to this relationship to much that its turning me afc, have i gone mad? or is it because ive stopped sarging i feel like i have no other options?

if any ones been in this situation please help. i need to stop thinking like this and going out and nailing 12 other girls wont work. all comments welcome

 

[DJ4Real]

Yes you've gone mad. Work on your confidence and inner game. When you become confident you will lose these insecurities and your your inner game will be better.

Good Luck

 

[Cougar10033]

I was a jerk when i was in HS and grade school got in an ltr my junior yeat until my sophmore year in college. She completly corrupted me, changed the way i acted and dressed. Made me feel like the old me was an ahole. I changed, i began to put other people ahead of me and care about what they thought and felt rather than caring about #1 myself. When we broke up i was a lost mess... Found this site and realized what happened, began to return back to myself, got into a second Ltr that lasted 2 years, didnt take **** from her or anyone else, she hated it but stuck with me, tried to change me, i wouldnt budge on my opinions. She respected me more and i was in control. When she was out with guys i didnt care because i knew in this 2nd ltr i was calling the shots. I broke up with her in Sept of this year and didnt get hurt once. I think its important to keep the basics and always keep her on her toes. I would not want to ever go back to the way things were in that first LTR, dont let your girl change you

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Each person is different bud, you can't create a system to counteract yourself from becoming an AFC in a relationship.

A man must go through 2-3 LTRS in his life in order to be a well relationship-traveled man. Infact women prefer a man who is well-trained in relationship manners than just a guy who had only one ltr (LTRS only count if they've lasted 9+ months) or none.