Mister_Skinny_Jeanz
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i usually dont make these post but fvck it you guys love all this sh!t , so here it is...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
relationships are scam
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mister_Skinny_Jeanz
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what are your thoughts on the video?
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Ok I listened to it. A lot of opinion, but I did agree with some of what was said. In regards to marriage, been there done that, never again. You would think the laws in the west were designed by women socialists that hate men.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
metalwater
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relationships have value. an agreement with someone spoken or unspoken to support each other in certain ways. agreements that are unenforceable and do not have equal penalties for breaking are a bad decision. in western law, there is no mechanism to enforce the marriage duties of a woman, albeit there is a mechanism to enforce a man. this is a broken system.
if no sex without marriage then marriage would have value. if women's duties are enforceable then marriage would have value.
as it is in the west there is NO value for men to marriage other than to accommodate a woman's wish for it. on the other hand, it delivers security to the woman and makes it so she is not dependent on her husband. she can behave badly and he still must keep his end of the bargain by law, yet she does not.
solution. stone women who do not keep the codes. and men also...
if no sex without marriage then marriage would have value. if women's duties are enforceable then marriage would have value.
as it is in the west there is NO value for men to marriage other than to accommodate a woman's wish for it. on the other hand, it delivers security to the woman and makes it so she is not dependent on her husband. she can behave badly and he still must keep his end of the bargain by law, yet she does not.
solution. stone women who do not keep the codes. and men also...