"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dhoulmagus

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I find my current relationship to be so full of **** and would leave, but my other options are dryer than the sahara desert right now lol. Back then, men were the dominant sex in the work force and this made women seek men as not just a lover but also a provider. This resulted in men being chivalrous to their women and courting them. This made sense back then because women fulfilled their roles as being faithful and housewives. Now women do not have to do that because there is more equality in the workforce. They essentially lost their eating free privileges, but still want to eat for free. I am all for equal rights, but I do not see why I should have to pay for a woman now. They have jobs and they like to flaunt how independent they are, but they still want to retain the benefits from the past when they weren't so equal.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tictac

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Men may have provided. But women kept home going so there was a place to come back to.

The whole male dominant thing is bogus. It (at least in the past) was complementary. Who knows what to call this mess now.
 

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Your absolutely right OP, dating now sucks. I take breaks from it for a few months at time and I'm happier, then I go back.

Even girls that make more money than me expect me to pay all the time.

The only guys that win are the broke bad boys ex cons etc.. and then the women pay.
 

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Willard said:
Your absolutely right OP, dating now sucks. I take breaks from it for a few months at time and I'm happier, then I go back.

Even girls that make more money than me expect me to pay all the time.

The only guys that win are the broke bad boys ex cons etc.. and then the women pay.

Haha I'm wondering how these guys are able to get away with that. We always talk about how women are bad but all of a sudden they become submissive and respectful with bad boys??!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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