SpazzAttackk
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This topic has been around before, but I want to get your thoughts.
Lets say youre seeing a girl, not quite an LTR yet but in the beginning stages of one. Now lets say this girl moves mountains to see you, and she shows high interest. Lets also say that you live far, and see her once a week / 2 weeks. Yes, even though you see her once a week / 2 weeks she still moves mountains, 2 jobs school etc.
Ok NOW lets say, on your facebook newsfeed; you see her interacting with other alphas and guys with status. No Im not talking about full on stalking, Im talking about seeing the newsfeed and seeing your potential LTR talking to them. If you stalk profiles of the girl youre interested in, kindly leave this topic.
How would you feel? I myself, do get a little jealous, and yes somewhat insecure because for all you know she could be seeing them. I do consider this a weakness on my part, but I am 100% positive most guys here feel the same.
How do you handle it? Do you chump out and go into full on smothering her or do you continue the relationship the way it was?
I only ask this because I am currently in this situation. Ill be out of the country for 2 weeks next month and, dare I say it, I do fear she may lose interest. I know Ill receive a lot of flak for saying that on these forums, but I cant lie. This is the only way to better myself.
Again, how do you handle it? Im talking high caliber competition. Body builders as an example.
Edit: I guess you could say the jealousy stems from the fact that were long distance, and the guys she talks to are in her area. I might break this one off. Too much stress. Need to spin plates.
Lets say youre seeing a girl, not quite an LTR yet but in the beginning stages of one. Now lets say this girl moves mountains to see you, and she shows high interest. Lets also say that you live far, and see her once a week / 2 weeks. Yes, even though you see her once a week / 2 weeks she still moves mountains, 2 jobs school etc.
Ok NOW lets say, on your facebook newsfeed; you see her interacting with other alphas and guys with status. No Im not talking about full on stalking, Im talking about seeing the newsfeed and seeing your potential LTR talking to them. If you stalk profiles of the girl youre interested in, kindly leave this topic.
How would you feel? I myself, do get a little jealous, and yes somewhat insecure because for all you know she could be seeing them. I do consider this a weakness on my part, but I am 100% positive most guys here feel the same.
How do you handle it? Do you chump out and go into full on smothering her or do you continue the relationship the way it was?
I only ask this because I am currently in this situation. Ill be out of the country for 2 weeks next month and, dare I say it, I do fear she may lose interest. I know Ill receive a lot of flak for saying that on these forums, but I cant lie. This is the only way to better myself.
Again, how do you handle it? Im talking high caliber competition. Body builders as an example.
Edit: I guess you could say the jealousy stems from the fact that were long distance, and the guys she talks to are in her area. I might break this one off. Too much stress. Need to spin plates.
