Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The last girl that was trying to manipulate me is beautiful and knows it. She was interested in me but would not do what needed to be done for us to be together. I'll just say that she was trying to "have her cake and eat it too". Now she knew I was interested, and that she was hot, so she thought she could get away with murder, so to speak. She never dreamt I'd say to hell with and move on. But I did, and I'm damn proud of it. And she was crushed. It still amazes me how much girls hate to lose when they are trying to manipulate or get something from a guy. The real hot ones have probably never had a guy walk away, ever. So they have themselves on a pedestal. If you walk away because she isn't "playing fair", it destroys that pedestal, and her fantasy land is replaced by a big slap in the face, a dose of what men deal with daily from women: Pain, reality, rejection, loss.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sexy_kuta said:never rush anything
always be yourself. always.
never change yourself for her. your things are always first on ur list.
dont change ur lifestyle. if u had a hobbie going before she came in. u better continue doing that...
meaning.. like some ppl become lazy because they got a "gf" so they stop doing the thigns they were doing when they first met their girl. DONT do that.
and yeh just be easy. and let things flow. but ALways keep ur foot down, even from the beginning.
NEver yell at her or swear at her. if she steps out of line. meaning she disrespected u.. no need ot yell at her. use your most powerful tool. and thayts slience.. just ignore her for a few days then after u think she learned her lesson. act normal.. this will set her straight.. it did with my exes.
always keep things at a slow pace . and let them come up... meaning. dont force ur girl if she doesnt wanna kiss.. or fuk u.. u can make the moves and make them encourging but when she tells u flat out that shes not ready. then back off..
one of my best tips i can give you is. that.. ALWAYS keep your interest level slightly below hers if hers at 80 percent. u wanna be at 70 percent. know what i mean?
but No matter what. she is there ONLY to add to your happeniess.. NOT TAKE IT AWAY! remember that. if she is gone by 2morrow you will STILL do the same **** u did years ago.. eat. sh1t. sleep. fuk.. breathe..
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