"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I heard that the majority of woman who are married or have boyfriends always want it to be known. I see a lot of woman who lists themselves as in a relationship etc on myspace etc and friendster. Also, facebook has a feature that shows who you are in a relationship with.

1. My question is are there some women who do not like to mention about it? I have some woman friends that put their in a relationship and those are the ones that are DEFINITELY proud of showcasing that their b/f's so their friends can see.

2. I also have 1 or 2 woman friends that put that their engaged and married or in a relationship when their definitely not. What's with these 2 women? One of them is also unhappy most of the time and writes things like crazy thoughts like depression if you get what I mean. Do they list themselves involved or engaged because they don't want to seem to have low value or something?

3. What about woman that do not even mention if their in a relationship in one of those profiles? I have maybe 2 woman friends that do this. One does this and does have a boyfriend. Does that mean she isn't really that happy with having a b/f since most woman would definitely list themselves as having one when their friends see?

4. The other woman doesn't have a boyfriend but does not list her relationship status. Is it because she doesn't want to feel "left out" or something? I know most guys don't really give a damn when they list if their single or not but it seems that a lot of women are AFRAID of listing themselves as single.

Comments or thoughts of what i had to say on all thesee different kind of women would be great.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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warrior1 said:
I heard that the majority of woman who are married or have boyfriends always want it to be known. I see a lot of woman who lists themselves as in a relationship etc on myspace etc and friendster. Also, facebook has a feature that shows who you are in a relationship with.

1. My question is are there some women who do not like to mention about it? I have some woman friends that put their in a relationship and those are the ones that are DEFINITELY proud of showcasing that their b/f's so their friends can see.

2. I also have 1 or 2 woman friends that put that their engaged and married or in a relationship when their definitely not. What's with these 2 women? One of them is also unhappy most of the time and writes things like crazy thoughts like depression if you get what I mean. Do they list themselves involved or engaged because they don't want to seem to have low value or something?

3. What about woman that do not even mention if their in a relationship in one of those profiles? I have maybe 2 woman friends that do this. One does this and does have a boyfriend. Does that mean she isn't really that happy with having a b/f since most woman would definitely list themselves as having one when their friends see?

4. The other woman doesn't have a boyfriend but does not list her relationship status. Is it because she doesn't want to feel "left out" or something? I know most guys don't really give a damn when they list if their single or not but it seems that a lot of women are AFRAID of listing themselves as single.

Comments or thoughts of what i had to say on all thesee different kind of women would be great.
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I've noticed this same thing with my female friends, especially on facebook. One girl doesn't list herself as being in anything (her bf is in italy studying abroad and she's always flirting with other guys). Two other female friends of mine are in a relationship with each other (stupid girls, it's annoying when they do that). Then one of them always gets mad at her bf and weekly changes her relationship status to 'single', just to get him mad. Basically there's several different types of girls when it comes to these relationship status. Ones that don't list anything are usually either hiding their bf from the world, or just aren't interested in anyone at the moment. Girls that are in relationships with each other, I find are usually party girls that put out fairly easily. So you should pretty much only hit on the normal ones that say single, or the ones that are engaged or in a relationship with each other.
 

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Yes i agree. I also felt that women who do this relationship with their woman friends just do that so they wont be listed single. What about those that try to hide their b/f from the world? I just thought most women want to show who their man is.
 

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If it helps any, the older women get, the more willing they are to disclose the fact they are in a relationship (especially on facebook).
 

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A lot of girls put in a relationship to stop guys from sending them messages.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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