"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DannyM

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Hey,

Ok well i met a girl two weeks ago...quite an age difference im 26 and shes 17 but it doesn't bother me or her. I slept with her on the first night and later find out she had a boyfriend which she decided to dump for me, She does seem to have her **** together in some ways but after 1 and a half weeks she told me shes never met another guy like me never felt this way before and she loves me???? I've met her parents and do like her lots but im abit alarmed at how fast its all moved along....guess im kinda scared of getting hurt as i know shes cheated in past and its first girl in a long long time i've really liked. Can somebody with more relationship experience than me advise me what to do here? cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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Women who haven't hit their mid-20 yet are NOT good ltr material. They are flakey, and they NEED to go through their "I'm legal and need to party" phase. Its only after this phase that they become somewhat decent ltr material.

Don't put too much investment into this one.
 
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Tiguere

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Desdinova said:
Women who haven't hit their mid-20 yet are NOT good ltr material. They are flakey, and they NEED to go through their "I'm legal and need to party" phase. Its only after this phase that they become somewhat decent ltr material.

Don't put too much investment into this one.
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I agree hit it while you can chances are she will do the same to you soon enough
 
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