"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Relationship material?

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BAne

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Is it possible that there are girls that are simply not relationship material? And never will be?

Or does that change when the right guy comes along?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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InnerHappiness

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Seriously, what do you want us to do? Circlejerk you?

No women will change. Absorb what these 30+ DJ's are telling you.
 
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It's subjective.

Undateability doesn't exist as an absolute IMO, but it differs from man to man. My definition of undateable is low ambition, multiple baby father, uneducated, low prospects. That's the opposite of what I value and aspire to be.
 
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BAne said:
Is it possible that there are girls that are simply not relationship material? And never will be?
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Yep, there are women who are girlfriend material and there are those who are simply one night stand material. With practice you'll learn to spot the differences pretty quickly as you get to know her.
 
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I believe the latter of the two. Wait for the right one to come along and she'll load the man up with so much conversation that he'll want her to slow down.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You dont want to change a girl dude, if shes a ho, keep her a ho - its why you like her. So keep it that way.
 
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subjective and incalculable. spend your time on something more important. The answer is yes sometimes, historically and typically no. Bad pasts begets bad futures.
 
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