Hi all, Im in the middle of transforming myself from AFC to Don Juan and I need some advice before I become an AFC. Ive been with my girl since May, was a challenge, C&F, etc and she had very high interest level in me. However, she wants me to open up more and I did that with long phone convos recently but it seemed like she is losing interest in me. Today, she told me she had to go back to work when normally she talks to me while working plus she hasn't sounded as enthusiastic on the phone. She still callls me frequently(For every two times she calls me, I call her once) and all but is a little less enthusiastic. What are some things I can do to regain her interest in me? We haven't had time to do weekend dates due to our busy schedules and the fact she takes care of her grandma on the weekends. What are some things I can do to regain the spark? Holla back
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Only talk on the phone to set something up in person or for necessary convos!! Men shouldn't be talkers - we are action oriented!!! Take action and quit being her phone buddy!!!!
congratulations about trying to change from AFC to don juan, thinking about changing in the better you have already achieved half the journey. so know back to your problem. women say one thing but want one other complete different thing. so they say they want nice guys that open up etc. whilst they are seen in the company of jerks. So I suggest that after some months in relationship you do open up some more or else she will feel like the relationship is going nowhere, however definetely do not open up on the phone, I am completely against spending lots of time on the phone, open up when you are with her in your car or your place and then i assure you that the s-ex that comes after will be mind blowing since girls like these things..
good luck playa
good luck playa
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Your grasp of the English language is so god-damned atrocious, there's absolutely no way you went to University, much less finished high school.Originally posted by fanatizmu
congratulations about trying to change from AFC to don juan, thinking about changing in the better you have already achieved half the journey. so know back to your problem. women say one thing but want one other complete different thing. so they say they want nice guys that open up etc. whilst they are seen in the company of jerks. So I suggest that after some months in relationship you do open up some more or else she will feel like the relationship is going nowhere, however definetely do not open up on the phone, I am completely against spending lots of time on the phone, open up when you are with her in your car or your place and then i assure you that the s-ex that comes after will be mind blowing since girls like these things..
good luck playa
You are so full of sh*t. No way in hell you are a psychologist - you have a grade 3 writing level.
Excellent advice yall giving me. I decided to just stop calling her and let her come to me. I have to drive 45 miles(long time in L.A. traffic) to see her and we only get one hour of time together so it look like it wont work. Oh well, I'll try to find someone who has more time in which I can open up to her face to face. Where are some good places in general to holla at women?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Yes, face to face - human contact at its finest - especially when relating to women!!!Originally posted by LADawg49
We only get one hour of time together so it look like it wont work. Oh well, I'll try to find someone who has more time in which I can open up to her face to face. Where are some good places in general to holla at women?
Meet women wherever they are!!!!