"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lt dan

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this was first suggested by jakethasnake. the first time i saw a suggestion anyway. it would be a forum dedicated to people in ltrs. like me. i think there are two different types of guys in here. the ltr guy and the dating guy. the ltr guy looks for chicks he thinks would be good for long term. thats the reason i think this forum would stay alive unlike the suggested college forum that would die down quickly cuz most people here are in colege.
the problem is that there might not be that many posters(or at least posters in ltrs, some may just have advice). i dont know the logistics of starting a new forum and i dont know if it would be practical to do this knowing that there may not be a massive amount of posters. but it sure would be nice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^I like it.
 
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Read the post "Need a New Board" on this board for more of this debate about the need for an LTR board. There are some who are against it... (although I like the idea)

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