frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Its Over!
Time To Improve Yourself!
Good Luck Man!
Time To Improve Yourself!
Good Luck Man!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Relationship ENDED after 2.5 years.. Need Advice Badly..
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There this other guy that constantly flirt with my ex-girl. I never met him before. Pretty much we've been having arguement, and this guy is being the emotional tampon. This is bull****, and there this new girl that is always there for my ex, which I never before as well. I don't want to do harm or anything to these people, bc i honestly don't think violence solve anything. But what I do from here, I've win her back somehow by not being desperate or needy, bc this girl I've broken up w/ her a few times but she always manage to keep out relationship strong and she help me with so much in life. I cant just throw it all away, w/o doing one last thing and see how that goes.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
I've been in the same situation as you Xero(2.5 yr relationship), it's very ruffling on the emotions. When we broke up I was like "WTF just happened??" and it wasn't the happiest time in my life. One thing you should remember with all relationships is to spend time with people that are REALLY interested in you. Don't waste your time trying to convert some women or bother with these lame chicks that are "too busy"... Drop these broads asap. It'll be the best thing you can do.
Go out there and find a girl who really wants you. Don't let all these imitation broads get in the way. It's obvious that your ex has lost interest, which was the same situation for me. It's tough at the time but it get's easier as you understand the situation. After you get a handful of numbers and go on a few dates, you will be able to weed out the ones who are interested and the ones who are not. You WILL find girls that are REALLY into you no matter what. These are the ones you want in your life.
I sympathize with your current situation, but the sooner you realize this, the sooner you can achieve success.
Go out there and find a girl who really wants you. Don't let all these imitation broads get in the way. It's obvious that your ex has lost interest, which was the same situation for me. It's tough at the time but it get's easier as you understand the situation. After you get a handful of numbers and go on a few dates, you will be able to weed out the ones who are interested and the ones who are not. You WILL find girls that are REALLY into you no matter what. These are the ones you want in your life.
I sympathize with your current situation, but the sooner you realize this, the sooner you can achieve success.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
xero88 said:
you broke up with her a few times? But you want her back?
you need to grow up some..your 19...I know IT HURTS BAD.....but you havent even started life...this isnt healthy for you. and if you broke up with her before...you are not in love...you love her conditionally for what she has done for you...let her go and have a life..and you can build ur self up to be a man.
focus on getting yourself a great job and life.
let it go
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I repeat!!!!!Last Man Standing said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TruthHurts
Don Juan
I concur!Last Man Standing said:
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
We spoke the truth, and we are here for you. We have opened the door but can't pull you through. Keep your head up and your mind off of it. Work it out in the GYM. Use the emotions to create some art. Beat the :cuss: out of a punching bag :box: . Take up some class like Boxing or Martial Arts.
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The world is yours!
Keep us informed.
I've been in a very similiar situation with "the one" (lol) as well. Dude I can give you all the advice in the world and you wouldn't listen to me. All I have to say is that it's over. It's been over for a long time already and she didn't "think" over anything. She just needed to make it seem like she did when in fact she had the breakup planned out for weeks if not months. I'm nearly 100% positive that she's either found someone else or is just looking to be a little slvt for a while. Either way she's no longer your problem. I understand that you love her but continuing to do so would do YOU no good. As much as you hate and don't want to hear this I'm going to tell you that it's time to move on. She isn't interested. Learn to enjoy life with or without her. Make yourself a better person intellectually, spiritually, physically and enjoy life without her. I don't know this chick but all I have to tell you is that there are so many better ones out there it's unbelievable. I didn't want to accept any of this when it has happened to me but I soon realized the truth. Only time and distance will heal your wounds.
MacAvoy
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Forget about it, chalk it up to a lesson learnt. Totally cut her out of your life, forget about the money, move on.xero88 said:
A couple hundred buck isn't worth the emotional hassle of having these cheatin wh0re in your life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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See what's happening in reality. She's got another cat running words into her ears. Let the 'ho go.
Karmic Law #18 - The best revenge on a guy who is involved with your ex is to let him have her.
'nuff said.
Karmic Law #19 - The best way to get over a woman is to find another.
Karmic Law #18 - The best revenge on a guy who is involved with your ex is to let him have her.
'nuff said.
Karmic Law #19 - The best way to get over a woman is to find another.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
you young man..your in a great position..the next 5 years will be the best of your life..
have fun
have fun