It occurred to me that almost all of my relationships over the past few years have fallen into a pattern:
1) There is an undeniable initial attraction (love at first sight) and I get her number right away.
2) The relationship blossoms quickly and goes strong, and there are a lot of great dates.
3) Without warning, I get the gut feeling that something changed and, within the next meeting, I confront her. Reading her response, I almost always choose to walk away. In almost every case, the last time I saw them was after a great date, at the height of the relationship. Looking back over a handful of such relationships I find great memories and very little pain.
Remember: if you are wondering if she wants to end it, simply say "Do you think maybe we should end it?" She'll either say "Absolutely Not!" or her answer is yes. Thus, it's a mutual breakup.
Anyhow, while at first I thought it might be a bad sign, now I think it's actually good that my relationships go this way. As you can see, I waste very little time on the early seduction phase or on the late breakup phases, hence a high "Relationship Efficiency Factor". This can be credited to a strong ability to read women well.
Knowing when there is high attraction early, and sensing if attraction fades late (and this can be hers or your own) will minimize wasted time and resources.
Have you had any efficient relationships and do you think they are a bad sign or good sign?
1) There is an undeniable initial attraction (love at first sight) and I get her number right away.
2) The relationship blossoms quickly and goes strong, and there are a lot of great dates.
3) Without warning, I get the gut feeling that something changed and, within the next meeting, I confront her. Reading her response, I almost always choose to walk away. In almost every case, the last time I saw them was after a great date, at the height of the relationship. Looking back over a handful of such relationships I find great memories and very little pain.
Remember: if you are wondering if she wants to end it, simply say "Do you think maybe we should end it?" She'll either say "Absolutely Not!" or her answer is yes. Thus, it's a mutual breakup.
Anyhow, while at first I thought it might be a bad sign, now I think it's actually good that my relationships go this way. As you can see, I waste very little time on the early seduction phase or on the late breakup phases, hence a high "Relationship Efficiency Factor". This can be credited to a strong ability to read women well.
Knowing when there is high attraction early, and sensing if attraction fades late (and this can be hers or your own) will minimize wasted time and resources.
Have you had any efficient relationships and do you think they are a bad sign or good sign?
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