"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Relationship Costrophobia

S0LID

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Hey guys, after over a year of studying seduction frequently, daily, hours at a time, hanging with players, developing style I have more girls than I know what to do with. I'm having grls fall in love hard, it's what i wanted exept when I get close to them alarm bells go off in my head saying "YOU DON'T WANT THIS MAN, YOU NEED TO MASTER YOUR CRAFT FIRST!!". If anyones seen Hitch, I have a simular attatchment phobia to him.

I keep thinking that if I'm this good now, imagine me in a year. So far for me it's been.
-only getting grls i meet off the net.
-getting grls dancing in clubs.
-getting girls by chatting and asking their number.

My popularity is incresing too. I've had one guys say to me "what happened to that geek who used to work in the co-op?" and I have the kids who were popular in school asking why i dont hang with them.

Next street approaches?

Are you guys doing the same thing of mastering your craft?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If I think back to a year ago, I'm really glad I didn't get into the relationships I flirted with. My game wouldn't be what it is now.

David DeAngelo: "it's the skill that matters"

I'm so guarded now, I'm not sure if I could have a relationship. If I ever put my heart out on my sleeve again, it would be for a girl whom I had thoroughly qualified as being non-game-playing.
 

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congrats bud, but its an ongoing transition from geek to dj, i'm working away from the geek as well, and its been a good journey so far..
 

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I have kinda a hate for grls. People insult us about manipulation and games but as soon as you tell a girl you really like her and think shes special she'll stop texting you back and get on some other guy without even telling you it's not working out!! Most girls will leave you for someone if they think thats a better person than you are. How can someone give a female that much power over them, enough to break you? enough which has driven many to killing themselves? I see so many people who say wow I wasted all them years with her. i really dont want that.

I just had a txt off some girl saying "y hav you done it to me again! u r ****ing with my head!"

If I drowned her with intrest she'd soon be bored instead of infactuated. If I just took my first off i would have never learnt the method of making girls fall hard.

Anyways i have a cinema date tomoz, that should be intresting, never bn on that kinda date,

any tips? I've found out shes the cuddley type so probably be able to use this to my advantage, shes pritty shy, the kinda grl who has all ugly friends and shes the stunning one so she wont be too stuck up. She looks a bit like lara croft so the tomb rader jokes will be flying.
 

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That date went really well, we were both creased up for hours. We were cuddled up in the cinema some flirting, great stuff. i love it when a gd plan comes together.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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