I second that, excellent way to handle it! You see how predictable her response was to you showing her you weren't phazed by her "coldness" and that you weren't mad. I wish I could've seen her face, lol. This is why guys have been telling you to BE THE PRIZE! So what you aren't a PhD student, you're still the fuuckin man. You have to believe that, most other guys who were as interested in her as you would've buckled under the pressure, good job.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Relationship based on a false premise?
- Thread starter Centaurion
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