Hey DJS, This is Georgio... I am NOT a "SoSuave" DonJaun so to speak!!.
Don't get me wrong.. My game is tight.. Girls seem to love me, I can't go anywhere without seeing a girl I know or a girl i've been with throwing herself at me... But I want a relationship.
I've never been a very "insecure" person, but my life has kind of made a little turn... To begin I started dating this girl from Rochester, NY about 6 months ago(even though I live in Baltimore, MD I go up there frequently to visit my brother.. twice, I have flown her down here to spend a week or 2 with me... seeing eachother is not a problem..) She likes me alot... A lot of girls do, but she's obviously the most interesting to me... Shes the only girl i've been with for the past 6 months, and everything has been going great, and we even plan on living together here in maryland next month.....
The rules of the relationship are simple.. I told her she had to quit smoking pot... No cheating *OF COURSE*... I told her she'll have to work full time, and be willing to save money with me...
She seems willing to change anything and everything to be with me... Wich is great.
Heres the bad part... about a month ago I started working full time 40 HRs a week.. from 4:00pm - 12:30AM..... My sleeping schedule has been the same for the past month... I usually go to sleep around 7:00AM, and wake up at 3:00pm, just to get ready for work.... Wich means my free life is from 12:30 - 7:00 AM... I have always been a fun funny, energetic guy, etc... But I never used to work like this.. I hate my job and its like it's killing my whole personality... On top of that I work inside a warehouse, I'm not dealing with the people wich means all week I have no contact with the world and that just ****ing sucks! U know everyone hates being lonely..
So what should I do or say to my girl when she says shes gonna call when I get out of work, and the phone dosn't ring.. Yeah I've thought maybe shes cheating, smoking, or doing something shes not supposed to do.. or maybe shes just sleeping... But even if it it was that I don't think it would be hard for her to make sure shes up to call at 1:00 just to ask me how my day was..
... My life, and daily routine been having me too seriously bored and stressed to be play around anymore... I've just been acting to serious lately, ,can anybody give me advice on how I can better myself...
Georgio..
Don't get me wrong.. My game is tight.. Girls seem to love me, I can't go anywhere without seeing a girl I know or a girl i've been with throwing herself at me... But I want a relationship.
I've never been a very "insecure" person, but my life has kind of made a little turn... To begin I started dating this girl from Rochester, NY about 6 months ago(even though I live in Baltimore, MD I go up there frequently to visit my brother.. twice, I have flown her down here to spend a week or 2 with me... seeing eachother is not a problem..) She likes me alot... A lot of girls do, but she's obviously the most interesting to me... Shes the only girl i've been with for the past 6 months, and everything has been going great, and we even plan on living together here in maryland next month.....
The rules of the relationship are simple.. I told her she had to quit smoking pot... No cheating *OF COURSE*... I told her she'll have to work full time, and be willing to save money with me...
She seems willing to change anything and everything to be with me... Wich is great.
Heres the bad part... about a month ago I started working full time 40 HRs a week.. from 4:00pm - 12:30AM..... My sleeping schedule has been the same for the past month... I usually go to sleep around 7:00AM, and wake up at 3:00pm, just to get ready for work.... Wich means my free life is from 12:30 - 7:00 AM... I have always been a fun funny, energetic guy, etc... But I never used to work like this.. I hate my job and its like it's killing my whole personality... On top of that I work inside a warehouse, I'm not dealing with the people wich means all week I have no contact with the world and that just ****ing sucks! U know everyone hates being lonely..
So what should I do or say to my girl when she says shes gonna call when I get out of work, and the phone dosn't ring.. Yeah I've thought maybe shes cheating, smoking, or doing something shes not supposed to do.. or maybe shes just sleeping... But even if it it was that I don't think it would be hard for her to make sure shes up to call at 1:00 just to ask me how my day was..
... My life, and daily routine been having me too seriously bored and stressed to be play around anymore... I've just been acting to serious lately, ,can anybody give me advice on how I can better myself...
Georgio..