"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Besides disregarding any fear of rejection, like a negative response from a kiss or something, what can be said or done to still feel in power from a bad response to an advance?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Maeisgood
Besides disregarding any fear of rejection, like a negative response from a kiss or something, what can be said or done to still feel in power from a bad response to an advance?
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u move on to the next woman, its pretty simple.
 
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Understand that the girl is fooling herself into thinking she can do better.
 
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Originally posted by AC/DC
Understand that the girl is fooling herself into thinking she can do better.
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More like realize that the girl made the huge mistake. You can find other chicks, but she'll never get another chance with you.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
More like realize that the girl made the huge mistake. You can find other chicks, but she'll never get another chance with you.
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Sure.

lolol I love you man!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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her lost not yours
 
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