"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rejection vs. Doubt.

JuanMoore

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Today I met the hottest girl I've ever laid my eyes on. Seemed like a sane person. Seemed smart. She seemed interested. No isolation, no phone, no close.

I feel like crap. :cuss: I don't know if she would have rejected me but I wouldn't have cared. But this feeling of "what if" is totally sh1tty. There should be no doubt in my mind.

The reason I didn't do anything was people around. Fvck people.
I like Juggler method. Saying "I find that about you so sexy" is so easy. :crackup:

I just wanted to vent. :up: :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stuntmann

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You're waiting for opportunities, instead of making them.
 

SaucyBoy

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This is OK. Don't worry about it. Something made you uncomfortable. You let it bother you. People won't give a **** what you do. If people are around make an excuse to move her into a more quiet place, make it clear you want to talk. You got to first base. Just follow through next time.
 
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