"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rejection vs. Doubt.

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JuanMoore

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Today I met the hottest girl I've ever laid my eyes on. Seemed like a sane person. Seemed smart. She seemed interested. No isolation, no phone, no close.

I feel like crap. :cuss: I don't know if she would have rejected me but I wouldn't have cared. But this feeling of "what if" is totally sh1tty. There should be no doubt in my mind.

The reason I didn't do anything was people around. Fvck people.
I like Juggler method. Saying "I find that about you so sexy" is so easy. :crackup:

I just wanted to vent. :up: :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're waiting for opportunities, instead of making them.
 
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SaucyBoy

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This is OK. Don't worry about it. Something made you uncomfortable. You let it bother you. People won't give a **** what you do. If people are around make an excuse to move her into a more quiet place, make it clear you want to talk. You got to first base. Just follow through next time.
 
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