rejection...then changes mind?

[AverageFC]

Something I'm curious about, hasnt happened to me.

Let's say you ask a woman out and get rejected. Low IL, etc.

But then a few months or a year or so later the woman asks you out? What do you do? Go out with her? Or treat her with the same heartless behavior with which she treated you?

 

[Wubbman]

Think about giving her a chance if you still have feelings for her. What's one date after all?

 

[Cremasta]

What have you got to lose?

Just don't pay for everything?

 

[squirrels]

Re: You're in a great position

Originally posted by swampwiz

You never know the reason why she rejected you. She may have had a b/f. She really may have been busy at that time. She may have been recovering from an illness.

She might not have been able to get a date with any of the guys around her that she IS interested in and wants a throw-away for the Valentine's season.

If you've got the time and you feel like seeing her, go for it. Just don't get too excited just yet.

 

[PRMoon]

Sure I'd go, I've got a few things going on but I'd find some time to go out with a chick even though she changed her mind.

Women are very fickle creatures so expect them to flip flop on a lot of issues.

 

[gruby]

Good friend of mine called up a guy she liked and enver called in the past 8 months and fuc-ked his brains out on the first date. She always thought he was hot but didn't do anything because she was in relationship.

 

[sapphire]

Most likely she was in a relationship before and now is free to pursue.

 

[DeathDealer]

If a girl I dated for a month dumped me, and she called me 2-3 months later all sounding happy and stuff trying to get me to setup a date or she asks me out. I would go, yep.. but wouldn't plan on dating her unless she made all the moves, paid for date, etc. Remember, the dumper is the one supposed to do the crawling NEVER you.