How To Eliminate Rejection From Women: BFF Mental…: http://youtu.be/gsRneoX7AkU
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rejection-proof Approach
- Thread starter Tiguere
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Haha i saw this earlier on today. The big time white knight kinda pissed me off though at 3:28
Tictac
Banned
If you can't handle rejection, you have no game.
abe0
Senior Don Juan
Well, the good thing is that he is getting his foot in the door. The risk...are you now moving into the friend zone quickly.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
This smoosh-faced homunculus has a point. I gotta admit, I've done that, as well as a friend of mine, and it does work. You just bail if she doesn't bite and it is a real friendly, easy way of striking a convo. Will anything ever amount from it? Probably not, but you never know.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.