Rejection is KEY

[Synik]

I have an interesting way to get rid of those butterflies when you're out sarging. What I do is, I tell myself that I want to get rejected by every girl I see. When you're expecting the worst, (they don't call me Synik for nothin') nothing bad can happen. You'll end up getting experience points and sh!t, who knows, maybe even a few numbers.

So, with that said, I want everyone that is reading this to go out and sarge on every hot chick you see. The most important thing to remember is: expect rejection. See what happens and report back. I'll give 20 bucks to the person that comes back without a number (granted you talked to more than 1 girl). Good luck fellas.

-Synik




"When in doubt, peace her out."

 

[DJ_in_making]

Yea, I read that tip somewhere...
Well, I watch fresh prince of bellaire b/c it's one of the few good sitcoms around.
See how Will just approaches girl after girl and gets rejected. While not taking himself or the situation to seriously. If the girl rejects him it was all just a big joke in the first place, but eventually he hooks up w/ a few girls.

 

[nishbuk]

This is classic gunwitch mentality. "Make the ho say no!"

 

[blinkwatt]

Funny thing occured today. The most unbeleivably beautiful lady came into my work that was several grades above me from middle school yesterday. I escorted her to her car,small talk along the way and introduced myself to her. She had a idea of who I was as she said "Nice to re-meet you" and that was it. What are the odds? She came in today because her parents needed some items for dinner. I escorted her out again and had to,just had to take a shot of asking her to lunch. Now I knew going into this that the odds were stacked WAY AGAINST ME(I didn't have my hair combed,she is two years older then me(Im 18,she is 20),and her looks are beyond comparison). Now going into it I was not expecting much. But I asked to get lunch with me as my lunch was coming up in a few minutes and she said " I can't right now my family and I are having dinner,but I really would"(now at this point my head had a million things running through it) . I told her it was cool and and she said something but I have no clue as I was thinking "HOLY SH1T I JUST ASKED OUT THE ONE THAT EVERYONE IS AFRAID TO ASK" Now despite whatever she said after(I honestly have no clue),I have realized I have evolved into what I wanted,SOMEONE WHO DOESNT GIVE A FCUK ABOUT LOOKS,AND ARE NOT IMTIDATED BY ANY GIRL ANYMORE. Not only that but I learned I should not ask a girl out on a 10 minute advance(Yes I know on my part but my lunch was coming up). I also learned I should pay more attention to what customers buy before I hit on them(she bought items for a meal,I could have used for a conversation"what's all the stuff you bought for"?). Now on top of this there is still the chance that I could have lunch with her sometime,perhaps I should just ask for her number to arrange a meeting.

 

[Aerospace]

Originally posted by blinkwatt
Funny thing occured today. The most unbeleivably beautiful lady came into my work that was several grades above me from middle school yesterday. I escorted her to her car,small talk along the way and introduced myself to her. She had a idea of who I was as she said "Nice to re-meet you" and that was it. What are the odds? She came in today because her parents needed some items for dinner. I escorted her out again and had to,just had to take a shot of asking her to lunch. Now I knew going into this that the odds were stacked WAY AGAINST ME(I didn't have my hair combed,she is two years older then me(Im 18,she is 20),and her looks are beyond comparison). Now going into it I was not expecting much. But I asked to get lunch with me as my lunch was coming up in a few minutes and she said " I can't right now my family and I are having dinner,but I really would"(now at this point my head had a million things running through it) . I told her it was cool and and she said something but I have no clue as I was thinking "HOLY SH1T I JUST ASKED OUT THE ONE THAT EVERYONE IS AFRAID TO ASK" Now despite whatever she said after(I honestly have no clue),I have realized I have evolved into what I wanted,SOMEONE WHO DOESNT GIVE A FCUK ABOUT LOOKS,AND ARE NOT IMTIDATED BY ANY GIRL ANYMORE. Not only that but I learned I should not ask a girl out on a 10 minute advance(Yes I know on my part but my lunch was coming up). I also learned I should pay more attention to what customers buy before I hit on them(she bought items for a meal,I could have used for a conversation"what's all the stuff you bought for"?). Now on top of this there is still the chance that I could have lunch with her sometime,perhaps I should just ask for her number to arrange a meeting.

A man can dream, isn't it? Give it another chance, then drop her. There are countless more interesting women around.

 

[blinkwatt]

Originally posted by Aerospace
A man can dream, isn't it? Give it another chance, then drop her. There are countless more interesting women around.

Oh heck yes I will give it another shot, I didnt even ask for her number(I know I should have). But it shows how my past failures and rejections have helped me to build the "dont give a fcuk" attitude.

 

[Bonhomme]

Bassackwards

It still amazes me how many guys waste so much energy making all these efforts to approach women who show every indication of not wanting to be approached by them.

It's bassackwards. Attract the gals first, then signal those who interest you, and approach those who respond by showing signs of being attracted. Often, if you're doing a good enough job of attracting the gal, she will make it clear she's interested in you first.

So much easier and more effective.