"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rejection is better than regret

CuddleJunkie

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Just a little reminder guys. I finally decided to start with daygame after becoming comfortable with social circle gaming, and it was ****ing terrifying. I literally spent 30 minutes walking through the city (not even my own, I went to visit a friend) without approaching, even though 2 different girls caught my eye HARD. So I finally grabbed my balls and approached a chinese qtie, it went well, and everything was WAY easier after breaking that "approach wall".

So now, a day after it, I'm not thinking about the approaches...I'm thinking about those 2 girls I didn't approach. It is really painful to think that I might have a date with them but I won't because I didn't try.

So remember guys: Rejection is better than regret.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cold approach is an awesome exercise in self-growth Nothing's more liberating than seeing a beautiful girl and going for what you want without caving to rationalizations or attachments to negative emotions. Plus, it'll spill over into other areas of your life (at least it did for me--my life really started taking off in other areas a couple months after I started making a concerted effort to cold approach).
 
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Agreed, rejection is instantaneous, while regret lingers on like prolonged torture.
I quite enjoy getting rejected.
 
DiegoSantori

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We are constantly met with rejection and ordinarily we do not think it's important.

If a store we go to is unexpectedly closed we simply go to another. If the Fish of the Day is sold out we order the Penne with sausage. We don't stop, curl up in a ball and cease wanting to try at life. We never should, even when trying makes us uncomfortable.

Rejections are not important. Your life and your happiness is.
 
Ronaldo7

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Rejection does not exist. If your mind is into it, despite being shunned and the worst odds, you will never encounter a better feeling than having fulfilled your intended purpose for the moment. Regret is the past, the waste of talent, of opportunity, of decision.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wifehunter

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Regret is the worst... Depression will make you experience missed opportunities. It has a paralyzing effect. it's not fun at all! It's a huge challenge to deal with but, is mostly manageable on good days.

Rejection is way better... It works both ways. In that, you also have the ability to reject the person who rejected you.
 
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