"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rejection hotline

sfalexi

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Heard from a buddy of mine that there's a rejection hotline out there. Apparently someone in the NYC area (we live in North Jersey) bought a phone line and hooked up this huge voicemail system to it and gave out it's number as a rejection hotline.

His sister has given it to guys. Apparently the girl gives you a number, it definitely looks real (cause it is), you call it and you get an answering machine that says, "If you've reached this answering system from a phone number you were given, consider yourself officially REJECTED!"

Then apparently there are options like 'press one for a poem' or 'press two for a joke' and stuff like that.

Anyone get the rejection hotline? I'm proud to say I haven't. But then again, I haven't asked for a girls number in MONTHS. So I guess it's not really something to be THAT proud of.

Alexi
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jprjrjr

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Who cares if you get the rejection hotline. Keep plugging away.
 

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(212) 479-7990. A friend told me to call it - I don't think it's that common for people living outside of NYC to get; even if you do, so what? It just shows she wasn't interested to begin with... so you know exactly what her IL is... :rolleyes:

Anything Else.
 

Panda 2000

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Giving out a rejection hotline number is mighty immature.
 

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They do a thing on the radio here in the UK its called the flirt divert number. If someone you don't fancy asks for your number you give them the fake one. The fake one has a generic answering machine.
They record the messages left on the number and play them on the radio. I have got to make a note of it before starting the boot camp!

Deepraj
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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a buddy of mine got one of those in the boston area....hahaha, it was pretty funny, in the cruel and sadistic sense.....you call it and it's a voice recording of a woman going something like, "hahaha, did you really think that I would actually be seen with YOU, hahahaha, oh my GOD!! hahahaha!!! what a LOSER." Funny stuff.....from my perspective that it
 

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I got the New York one. But the funny part was I didn't even ask the girl for a number.

I was being ****y and funny with her and then she gave me the number without me even asking.

Then later she tried to get me to buy drinks and ****, which I didn't do at all.

But I called the number 3 days later and got the brush off.

I thought it was kind of funny, but always wanted to go back in to bust on her.
 

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I didn't get the rejection hotline, just wondered who might have and (and it was already answered) if they had similar things in other parts of the world. I think it's funny as hell!
 

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I heard the one in Nashville a few months ago. No one gave it to me as a real number, but a friend I was with explained it to me and I called it.

Its stuff like this that drives me NUTS! Girls are so afraid of confrontation that they have made passive-aggression a game.

Anyone who actually uses something like this is a horrible human being. If you don't want to talk to someone then don't give them ANY number.
 

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Thats funny because this guy I know...his wife was telling a bunch of us about this guy hitting on her and she gave him the number. I got it from her and saved it to my phone...havn't giving it out yet. I'm waiting for the hottest chick I find.

Oh and I live in Tennessee so I guess the number is pretty popular.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm down here in ca everyone knows about that damn number. :D I never got it (from a chick) yet but my friend gave it to me and told me to call it cause its funny.

I told him "How did you get it?

He said "umm... uh.. my sister gave it to me."

:rolleyes: Yeah ok dude
 

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Oh snap....that means he got rejected by his sister!!!! :eek: :p
 
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