"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is meant to be a list of 'games' that you can play with yourself, or with friends (if they are so inclined to participate), that will help to develop confidence in approaching.

1. DYD's social experiment :

- Go to the mall, or somewhere with lots of ladies.
- Everytime you see an attractive lady, approach, say, "Hi, I'm doing a little experiment to help me get over my fear of approaching women that I find attractive. Thanks for helping."
- Then keep walking.

2. BootCamp style

- Go to lady central.
- Approach everyone (or every woman) with a 'hi' or 'hello' then keep walking.

3. How many rejections?

- Go to the local bar
- approach every woman, say 'hi' and ask for her number.
- Count how many women say no.

4. How many kisses?

- Go to the bar
- Walk up to every girl, and say "I just got dumped by my gf, if you give me a kiss it would help me get over her. Thanks."
(This one might cause you some grief later in the evening after being kissed by a few girls in the club)

I can't think of anything else at the moment, but feel free to add to the list.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my favorite one is always

"Hi, I'm doing a little experiment to help me get over my fear of approaching women that I find attractive. Thanks for helping."

lol. Doesn't work to well but it's still fun...

As for the last two, I really don't like the idea of asking every girl, not for fear, but becuase when you do that other girls see you as needy and your IL goes down, It's good for no0bs to teach them not to fear rejection, but nothing else.

Another favorite is one on this board where you draw the chicks stick figure style... something else happens...lol... don't remember but I know it was funny.

I prefer doing whatever needs to be done at the moment and not pre-planning stuff. more natural.

Anyway.
 
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Originally posted by Capi Crimini
It's good for no0bs to teach them not to fear rejection, but nothing else.
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That's who this is aimed for.
 
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