Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rejection coming around to bite me in the a**

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I asked this girl out like 3-4 weeks ago and she said no. Ever since then, I haven't showed any interest in her. I moved on. However, no I find that all her friends (some I haven't even met) are treating me like crap and giving me looks that says "f*** off". I hear from someone else that shes been talking s*** about me. I don't know what I did to piss her off, but this is becoming a problem. She's giving me a bad rep. I don't know what would get her to stop. Should I approach her and talk to her about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eugene123

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Yeah, you should talk to her, and like spiff said keep your composure and dont get angry or **** like that.
 

SinJester

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Noob, what's the problem with that? Why post everything if it has already been done. Irrelevant that he was directing him to my post, my response would have been the same in any case. So your suggesting that people type 1000s of words to every single guy that posts on these forums instead of telling him to read the DJ Bible or Book of Pook? Have some half-assed answer instead of reading life-changing works?

We don't have time, we are too busy pimping.

Just ignore them. Seriously. It's harder than it sounds but it's what you gotta do.
 
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