Rejection after Rejection

[ThreeStorms]

"that's great, because I was just practising on you for a real hot babe and I was getting pretty bored with you anyway, NEXT!"

A rejection is no reason to insult them. Show some style.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

A rejection is no reason to insult them. Show some style.

Ok, people here are right. But if you are getting rejection after rejection, then it helps for the person who is rejected to have the last word, and to practise with framing concepts. Again, you have to frame her rejection as doing you a favour.

How about this one;

"Great, so that means I'm free to see other women and you wont get jealous?"

These are b-stormed statements to make the right type of frame, so it's doesn't bother you.

 

[donArjun]

That's lame. Just move on. Luke,remember you're here to learn .

I second that, LUKE Don't hijack the thread., "remember you're here to learn" as are alot of us . btw, are you a troll?

 

[rocky_mtn]

Rejection beats regret any day. Regret that you never tried or regret that you passed up an opportunity.

Rejection means that you are trying, and trying is the most important thing. Use the rejection as a learning experience and keep trying.

If you are not sure, post up a FR as mentioned and get some constuctive criticism from experienced members and then use what you have learned to go out there again, but this time a little smarter and with a little more experienced.

You are a good guy who deserves to find a good woman. Finding one women who isn't right for you is a step towards finding the next woman who could be the right one. Frame everything in a positive light.

 

[d9930380]

It is a numbers game but if your doing it wrong and don't know why then you won't change and therefore things won't get better. Post your failure stories so people here can comment on them. To get your confidence and game up, lower your standards and go for UGs. Try to be charming: be friendly and complimentary. Don't go after a girl looking for sex, only start making moves AFTER she has given you signals or after a certain amount of time has passed where it's either that or bailing because it's going nowhere. If you want, pay for a prostitute just so it takes the pressure of "losing it".

 

[Schmuck]

what you need to do it is this, find a style that fits you ( not that you like ) but brings out your best features makes your most open to women.

That is not as easy as it sounds.

 

[Schmuck]

I As far as those who rejected you - NEXT them, tell them to their face - "that's great, because I was just practising on you for a real hot babe and I was getting pretty bored with you anyway, NEXT!" - which is the truth anyway.

That's bullsh*t. If the babe showed you interest you would wet your pants.
And hot babes KNOW it hurt your little tiny ego when you talk **** after being rejected. At least be real about it.

 

[rsxtreme]

rejection sucks even if its from a job that your applying for, or that school you want to get in.

 

[Freddy1]

Is all I get... I know I got to keep a positive attitude, but it's been really getting to me now. Whether it's in the field, or online, it's always the same answer "sorry, but we don't click" or "I'm just looking for friends right now" Honestly, I know it shouldn't get me down, but it is. I'm 26 years old, I have a decent job, live comfortably, but always get the rejections.

A rejection should be just a chink in the armor, but enough chinks, and the armor starts to crumble. At least that's how I see it.

I guess I'll have to accept my fate, that my only source of pvssy will come in the form of paid escorts. Considering I'm still a virgin, may as well make the phone call.

The main thing you need to consider is learning from each expereince. Was it something in your approach? Did her body language show signs of interests (IOI)?

 

[Distant Light]

so what are you saying it all depends on your game and your game will work on all the women the same ?

I tend to have a different style of ****y + funny that syncs well with some personalities so, personality -wise enough if there is attraction , there has to be some mental and emotional attraction from your personality which helps to seal the deal so to speak.

Yes that is what I am saying,

Your game
Identity/style
Bodylanguage
Inner game
Voice tonality

These 5 things, every time you mess up is because of your game thats why as you get better the amount of girls coming in is greater and the quality is better. I've kissed and layed girls who said they would never talk to me, but that was back when I act way too serious.

Just a few months back on mASF there was a post about it being possible to have a 100% success even though, there is none currently, Mystery who I think may be the first, posted about some new Sh!t called hot game or hot approach one of the two. An he basically stated that it is possible to 100% and a few agreeed. Now these guys have way more game than me so I wouldn't doubt what they say and from the pics of there gfs that I've seen there real nice.

What I can say though every girl that I have gamed in school is attracted to me some more and some less. During the month of March was basically my golden month where my game was tightier than ever. Its like a big aura is just oozing out of you and it just sends off attraction, its hard for me to explain.

 

[young_gun]

rejection sucks even if its from a job that your applying for, or that school you want to get in.

I disagree. I'd so much rather be rejected, but know that I tried instead of giving up and telling myself it's not worth trying. It's not even that much of a "rejection". The worst that's EVER happened to me is the girl telling me she doesn't want to give me her number, or she just doesn't act receptively to my approach.

I read a newsletter by Dr. Alex that says instead of going out and picking up chicks, you go out and find women who have good taste. If they don't like you, they must have bad taste. I like this mindset. I used to work at a telephone survey company where I would sit at a computer and make call after call after call to find people to take surveys. If I got 5 people to take the entire survey out of the several hundred I called, the night was a success. On a good night, I'd have a success rate of about 5%. (GREAT night) If I would have given up, I wouldn't have made any money.

 

[Chosen1]

Heres what to do. First do like they say dress nice shave tan if you need too. then go to a store or a place you visit a lot make small talk with women you are interested in most likely you have seen them before you can even use my patented line i'll sometimes say something like this "You know I keep seeing you here and we never stop to talk to each other hi my name is chosen" ain't no girl gonna reject that (don't forget to touch them a lot)

then after you have known the girls you introduce your self to for a while ask them to go some place with you (hug them when you meet them) like say to a fair or out to eat with friends or even lie to the girl if you're desperate

I'm kind of board now so i'm going to stop typing but here are somethings to remember 1. people usually meet people through friends or place they visit
2. don't ever wait for a sign 3. touch her as soon as you can 4. don't say anything too dumb 4. never give up 5. who cares what she thinks

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Is all I get... I know I got to keep a positive attitude, but it's been really getting to me now. Whether it's in the field, or online, it's always the same answer "sorry, but we don't click" or "I'm just looking for friends right now" Honestly, I know it shouldn't get me down, but it is. I'm 26 years old, I have a decent job, live comfortably, but always get the rejections.

A rejection should be just a chink in the armor, but enough chinks, and the armor starts to crumble. At least that's how I see it.

I guess I'll have to accept my fate, that my only source of pvssy will come in the form of paid escorts. Considering I'm still a virgin, may as well make the phone call.

You need to get involved with guys who know how to pick up ladies.

I was like you a year or so ago. Then I started hanging with cool dudes, guys who were risk-takers and had balls.

Since then, I've been approaching the hottest of girls daily, taking them out, and having THEM be desperate for me to bang them.

It's all a state of mind that you learn to develop.

What do you really want to do but are too scared/weak to do?

GO DO IT.

Boxing? Go do it.
Professional Gambler? Go do it.
Motorcycle? Buy one. Start riding.

I don't care what it is that you REALLY want to do. Go do it, and I guarantee you'll start feeling comfortable with yourself, and you'll realize that you are FREE.

The numbers start coming.

 

[donArjun]

hey donjuanapprentice01, the OP

any update on this,?

 

[sorin]

When you get rejected ... it shows you can still improve... it gives you valuable feedback of what you are doing wrong. You just have to pay attention and be open to change, to learning more about yourself and getting better at the things you do.

It's normal to do mistakes. It's good to learn from them.
Ignorring them or blaming everything else but yourself for them takes you nowhere.

Be responsible for what you do and learn every step of the way!

I hope you enjoy .

 

[sorin]

Rejection is not the worst thing that can happen.
Not learning from your mistakes or giving up is!

Always ask yourself after every approach:
1. What did I do good?
2. What can I do better next time?

Also you can get a wing and ask him to give you some feedback, because from the outside he can see bodylanguage better, etc...
Also you might wanna record yourself doing some approaches and PM me and I'll give you some proper feedback .

 

[Ace of Flames]

You totally necro'd this thread.

Bad newbie, bad.