"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nubian-knight

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now that ive obtained this ability to actualy atract and conversate with females, a large portion of them are loose skank hoes, easy girls that i have no interest in

it seems im in the minority of guys who reject advances from these girls. dont ask why but alot of guys who do reject advances from these girls are perceived as "gay" or something along thosel ines, from peers and the girls themselves

i guess its stil lthe immature phase that u should hit anything that will give u ***** but i dont roll like that

anyway to blow off these girls so they feel REJECTED, and not think that the only reason im not pursuing them is cuz im intimidated?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KillaCam

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That post was difficult to decipher.

Anyway, if you meant that you want them to actually feel rejected, that's pretty sad. They have feelings too, and the DJ way would be to make it clear you don't want them, but not to completely destroy their self esteem.

Just be honest with them, when you start to beat around the bush and and not be straight up, you WILL come across as intimidated.
 

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Man, you dont have to get with them.. just make them do things to themselves/eachother.. you dont even have to kiss them..

Once me and some of my mates were out and we met a group of easy girls.. not definate sluts but they wanted sex so make of it what you will..

we brought them back to my place and filmed them touching each other.. this is a true story.. that way I got off by beating over the movie later on without risk of catching anything or using them..
 

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Nubian is right theres got to be a way to REJECT these girls. I had three of these skanks all over me last night and despite w/e rejection i threw at them they kept wanting more. There are just some nasty desperate girls out there. Lots of guys are into that but I'm a DJ I aim higher.
 

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This is an odd post but anyway... tell them they are fat.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Docs said:
"I'm too good to have sex with you" :p
This is Gold!! LMAO:up:
 

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Don't worry, I had a better one in another thread.

Guy: "If you throw eggs, i will throw my wife at you!!dont mess with me youngster@!!"
Me: I'll throw a crappy pool cue at your wife. I'm so accurate it'd go straight into the 5 hole.
Guy: ^Thank the lord i dont have a wife, couse that would be terrible. That would be deadly!!
Me: I am Bond, Gold Bond!
 
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