"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rejecting hot girls...for entertainment

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Does anyone else do this? My friend and I were at ghost bar where we met two of his sluttier friends pretty much giving us garunteed a$$ from the moment we got there. It was some kind of stipper party so we weren't looking to game anyway. Regardless we decided to turn down hot chicks who approached us or asked us for drinks in the most humorus was possible. True we were kinda drunk but it was really funny to us at the moment, and we got laid at the end of the night. My question is do any of you take pleasure in turning down girls who think they're gods gift to man? Better still do you find it funny to do such to girls who have that mentality?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i do it all the time. they rejected me when i was an afc , now its my turn:kick: . girls are the best in playing this kind of game so be prepared for the battle of the egos. if a girl wants she couldnt condemn a guy who looks like brad pit so you have to be physcologically strong.
 
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Dude, that's just plain evil... :nono:

And quite amusing too!!! :up:
 
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I just treat them bad in bed for all the times in the past that they rejected me...
 
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Wow, thats sad.

PRmoon, Fran d, S-M you guys are pretty senior around this place. I'm disapointed in you all.

I'm sure you've all read The Game. Familiar with the story about the scorpion and the frog? Its in the girls nature to reject guys who lack value. If your all rejecting hot girls now - you've all clearly got value - you've all clearly bettered your life. The reason for you bettering your life has alot to do with hot women. Rejecting women politely is fine, we can all only please so many women. Doing it harshly and treating women poorly because of past misfortunes (when you were low value) is bitterly sad.

Grow up.

Don't encourage this from newbies.

three12.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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three12 said:
Wow, thats sad.

PRmoon, Fran d, S-M you guys are pretty senior around this place. I'm disapointed in you all.

I'm sure you've all read The Game. Familiar with the story about the scorpion and the frog? Its in the girls nature to reject guys who lack value. If your all rejecting hot girls now - you've all clearly got value - you've all clearly bettered your life. The reason for you bettering your life has alot to do with hot women. Rejecting women politely is fine, we can all only please so many women. Doing it harshly and treating women poorly because of past misfortunes (when you were low value) is bitterly sad.

Grow up.

Don't encourage this from newbies.

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I don't understand the message here but I will comment on the last statment. If you can't get with or havent' been with a slew of hot girls then dissing hot girls may not be the smartest thing...kind of a disclosure thing I supose but really should go without saying.
 
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I'm not always nice.
 
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