guitaronfire411
Senior Don Juan
From my experience, when a guy rejects a girl before they've even had time together, the girl will pursue the guy very aggressively after this point. This is only if the interest is there.
One time in high school, there was a girl that hung around with all of my friends at lunchtime. I would often laugh and make fun of her. Near the end of my final year, she went through a friend of mine to ask me out -- I declined multiple times. I later went to the winter dance, wanting to be with a different girl, and went AFC on this girl I liked. (I came on too strong and made her blush in class.) The original girl whom I despised danced with me that night, but my heart wasn't in it and it really showed. Later that summer, she would invite me and some friends over to meet her parents and brother. That must have been an act of desperation, as she was messaging me whenever I went on MSN. High interest to the max!
In a scenario where the girl is seeing someone else, what are the effects of rejecting her as a prospect? I understand that she won't be as desperate as a girl sarging for a single guy, but won't curiousity of 'what could've been' be more attractive than what she can get easily? ie. 'I always want what is out of reach'.
I did a search for a thread like this one and could not find it in the database. The best answer I could find is that girls either don't give a **** or get extremely pissed. Which brings me to another, more recent story.
Two terms ago, I was always making fun of this girl and giving her kino. We would hang out and go places together, almost as if we were bf and gf. For example, she needed to find the bus station to get back home, so I went with her as a friend (even said this at the time because I had zero interest in her) and saw her off. I'd tease her, and one time was talking about sex and making double entendrés like crazy. The other guy in the room couldn't take it. I was having a ball and turning myself (and I think her) on. Eventually, this girl and I started to get more and more distant. One day, I went to someone else's room in residence and caught her there. She was all cranky towards me and was talking about how her boyfriend is always cheating on her and how she wanted to do it too. I was in a stupidly-honorable mood, so I said to her that I don't cheat on other guy's boyfriends. After that, she ignored me until the very end of the year.
Thoughts?
One time in high school, there was a girl that hung around with all of my friends at lunchtime. I would often laugh and make fun of her. Near the end of my final year, she went through a friend of mine to ask me out -- I declined multiple times. I later went to the winter dance, wanting to be with a different girl, and went AFC on this girl I liked. (I came on too strong and made her blush in class.) The original girl whom I despised danced with me that night, but my heart wasn't in it and it really showed. Later that summer, she would invite me and some friends over to meet her parents and brother. That must have been an act of desperation, as she was messaging me whenever I went on MSN. High interest to the max!
In a scenario where the girl is seeing someone else, what are the effects of rejecting her as a prospect? I understand that she won't be as desperate as a girl sarging for a single guy, but won't curiousity of 'what could've been' be more attractive than what she can get easily? ie. 'I always want what is out of reach'.
I did a search for a thread like this one and could not find it in the database. The best answer I could find is that girls either don't give a **** or get extremely pissed. Which brings me to another, more recent story.
Two terms ago, I was always making fun of this girl and giving her kino. We would hang out and go places together, almost as if we were bf and gf. For example, she needed to find the bus station to get back home, so I went with her as a friend (even said this at the time because I had zero interest in her) and saw her off. I'd tease her, and one time was talking about sex and making double entendrés like crazy. The other guy in the room couldn't take it. I was having a ball and turning myself (and I think her) on. Eventually, this girl and I started to get more and more distant. One day, I went to someone else's room in residence and caught her there. She was all cranky towards me and was talking about how her boyfriend is always cheating on her and how she wanted to do it too. I was in a stupidly-honorable mood, so I said to her that I don't cheat on other guy's boyfriends. After that, she ignored me until the very end of the year.
Thoughts?