kingofnewbie
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I just got rejected Yahoo!!! and it wasn't too bad at all cool now i can move on....i am a ****ing idiot, should have done that long ago
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
rejected!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PrEcIsIoN22
Don Juan
Onlines the easy part...real lifes the challenge...IMO
manbearpig
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I don't think he said he got rejected on yahoo! I think he meant "YaHOO" as in "yippee" or "hooray".
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
kingofnewbie said:I just got rejected Yahoo!!! and it wasn't too bad at all cool now i can move on....i am a ****ing idiot, should have done that long ago
Good job.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
See....it doesnt hurt does it.....rejection is overated....not that i get much of it. :woo:
PrEcIsIoN22
Don Juan
Woooooppppsssmanbearpig said:
...Honest mistake..congrats on the approach....