"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WORKEROUTER

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So I went out to lunch w/ this girl yesteday afternoon, and I think that in general, it went pretty well.

Anyway, I happened to be getting some coffee near her place that evening and decided to just call her and tell her we could talk a little if she was down there. She wasn't there so I left a message

Since last night, she hasn't returned my call. So I am wondering...is she just not into me? And if I do not hear back from her, would it be wrong to give her a call in a couple days and set something up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You called the next day? What were you thinking? Wait at LEAST 2-3 days.

You just happened to be in the neighbourhood?!?
Yea... and I'm not stalking her i just like randomly driving by her house to make sure she's alright.
There's a Starbucks on every corner, why did you go by her house?

Somehow i doubt that story...
You sound like you're obsessed with this girl.


If I were you I would:
1. Rip up that number right now.
2. Go back and read the bible.
 
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FYCK, SHYT, BYTCH!

why, oh why did u do this?


WHY?


WHY?


this broke my heart to read this!

you called her the same mother freaking day!!!!1

holy ****!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DONT EVER DO THIS AGAIN!


wait atleast 36 hours to call her back..thats atleast 1 whole day! :)
 
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Ya I may have f*cked it up here.

I felt so confident that I thought she would take it as a pleasure to meet me again.

Anyway, I don't really give a sh*t...next time I won't be stupid and call her again so early, regardless!

In the meantime, I have been hitting up other girls.
 
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