Rejected!

[donut dunker]

I had a crush on this girl in my church for about 3 months now. Our chruch went to disney world and my friend who had known that I had a crush on her deceided to ask her out for me (i didnt ask him too) well she said she was talkin to someone else at the time and I was kinda moping around, for the rest of the day. my question is should i still go after her and if so how should i go about it? i still have strong feeling for her im kinda confused on where to go now.

The funny thing is she was giving all the sign before that like eye contact and stuff so thats what really confused me. i'm not to good at reading signals from girls so if someone could help me out it would be amazing.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

First...buy her some doughnuts haha just kiddin. I think that was lame of your friend for doin that. Probably had good intentions but still lame.
I think you should probably just cool it for awhile. Is there any other girls at your church that you could possibly go out with or atleast flirt with?
The whole eye contact thing gets to me a lot to. It probably doesn't mean she likes you unless shes like lookin at you and lickin her lips and squeeseing her ta ta's.

Anyways just my 2 cents

 

[donut dunker]

the thing that was funny though is that friend thought for sure she was it to me. like she would make eye contact all the time and laugh at my jokes and such. Oh well back to club lonely for me.Buy the way there were only 2 cute girls there ( i have really high standards ) one is the OBV, the other has been goin out with the guy that asked her out for me. Ant thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appicated.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

I say just forget about her for the time being and find some other chick. Another thing that im having to learn is to stop rating women so much and stop goin after the "supermodel types" like your doing.

It's kinda like my friend said, "Jon, you don't have to be with the baddest(hottest) b*tch in the school."

Now I'm not saying lower your standards and date some girl that looks like she fell out of the ugly tree and got hit by the ugly bus.

Just think outside the box. Some Average looking girls are cooler than the high maintience ones.

And if you don't want to do this then you could always hit up on the pastors wife, since you have high standards.

Kidding of course.........

 

[PEACEDJ]

I don't think you should go after this girl. She isn't going to be a good g/f... after all she is, "talking to someone else." wtf ever that means. I bet you that you can have so much fun with other girls and what I mean is stop dreaming about her and take action with new chicks.

 

[donut dunker]

the thing is usually i get attached to one girl and cant stop till i get her. which is usually never cause girls honestly still make me nervous.

 

[white_hype]

you can easily recover

go up to her and tell her you didnt tell your friend to ask her out for you, and you didnt know wtf he was thinking

act normal around her

back off for a little bit, and flirt with lots of other girls in front of her, she will eventually see you as a DJ whos macking on other girls and she will subconciously want you

try that and see what happens

 

[donut dunker]

thanks for the great advice. ill try to talk to her on sunday when i see her at church and explain what happen with my friend.

 

[donut dunker]

today i told her about what really happened. i remeber saying something like sorry about disney, i had no idea what he was thinking and that i had no idea he was going to do that. i was so nervous i was shaking afterwards but at least im starting to stand up against my fears.