"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LegendBoy

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Well i got this girls number a week. Did everything right in my opinion. Worked it well today at school I said tomorow we are meeting up and she said " What do you want to do" and said I will get back to her. Called her up tonight and said " Anyway I will see you tomorow". She said " I can't I like this other guy".At the end she said she will some other time. Like I am 2nd's fux that shyt.


And I thought this bich was interested. This guy is the biggest faag as well if yous ever saw a picture of him yous would laugh. I might even find one for you's sometime. He is her ex bf of only a month relationship. He is afc and a little jerk as he dumped her ass. lol.

I am good enough to approach now. Just tonight I gotta sit down and set some goals in all aspects on my life to get back on the horse continue the journey after that bump on the trail. What ticked me most off is that if you asked any MOTHERFUKN GIRL IN THE WORLD I KICK HIS ASS IN LOOKS DEPARTMENT. LOL rant ova had to get it out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ace of Flames said:
Uh... ok.

*Offers a chill pill*
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Yeh dude. Dont sweat it. Her loss. Bang her sister instead (if she has one).
 

LegendBoy

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wtf. I just got a msg from her saying, sorry for earlier want to get a cofee together tomorow in town. So she offered after saying no earlier. I have an urge to rejecct and say sorry I am busy. But i also might want to hook up. lol. respones
 

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nope. Dont accept the plans, you make the dates not her. ESPECIALLY after she turns you down.

In fact, make her pay you back with a blojob, if she says no, wait till she calls you back later asking if you want her to suck you off, then say yes. :)

yes, i've been drinking!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You say you worked it so you two were hanging out.. but you had no plan in mind? Come on now sir.. You know better than that.

Reject her offer. You can make a counter if you'd like, but I would blow her off completely right now and try and set something up at a later date.
 

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I think I will in the morning messages in the morning something like.

Hey. Sorry I can't I got some other plans with someone else. Later.
 

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I replied. Just like "cant go meet up, I go plans with somone else" And i got a reply sayn " ok sure".

In all honesty I kind of dig this chick. But **** that **** I ain't going to get disrespected. I am on the look out for other prospects.

A question what advice would you's give for me to do with this chick to get something out of her. She ain't hoe, should I stay cold in school or just continue to talk, as I rejected her a$$ last...
 

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What a b!tch. I wouldn't even respond to that if I got that back. Christ, when if you actually DID have plans with someone else? Totally dis-respectful of her to say that back. She's not worth it dude, NEXT!
 

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I didn't respond, I got no plans accept for maybe go mall with my m8s- maybe play soccer, exercise, study for final high schools for uni.

She isn't really that hot, though she has a aura about her that she can do what she wants. lol. I havent copped a heady in like 9 months. All my friends go parties and ****, but I hate that type of ****. As I also don't drink.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea, your better off man, go do something fun instead.

Plus, she may be the one chasing you, now that she knows she can't just call you up and expect a "yes!" She'll have to work for your attention this time...
 

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trance_addict said:
Yea, your better off man, go do something fun instead.

Plus, she may be the one chasing you, now that she knows she can't just call you up and expect a "yes!" She'll have to work for your attention this time...
yeah! what he said :up:

Make that ***** value you now.
Make her earn you!
 

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Ye thanks for the replies. I still am interested like I said earlier. But after she rejected my invo at first. I said **** this hoee. I think next week I will ask her out.
 

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And I thought this bich was interested. This guy is the biggest faag as well if yous ever saw a picture of him yous would laugh. I might even find one for you's sometime. He is her ex bf of only a month relationship. He is afc and a little jerk as he dumped her ass. lol.

Don't start to hate on someone else because you got the short end of the stick. Shoot,if anything you should be upset with her,but don't be,she isn't worth your time. Learn to control your emotions.

I am good enough to approach now. Just tonight I gotta sit down and set some goals in all aspects on my life to get back on the horse continue the journey after that bump on the trail.

Good idea to set some goals for yourself!

What ticked me most off is that if you asked any MOTHERFUKN GIRL IN THE WORLD I KICK HIS ASS IN LOOKS DEPARTMENT. LOL rant ova had to get it out.

...Looks aren't everything.
 

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As has been pointed out before, don't be hating on a guy because she wanted him more. It's not his fault she wanted him and not you. Improve yourself, rather than bringing down the competition.

Keep her chasing. It ain't your job to salivate over every second of attention she offers. You're going down the right track so far.

Blinkwatt hit the nail. Looks aren't everything, as you found out :up:

On the writing goals idea, it's gold. A few weeks ago I got angry enough at myself for getting into horrible situations in life. Busted out a pen and paper, wrote down exactly what I wasn't happy with, and churned out a whole list of ways to improve myself. It really helps.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay I called her talked under a minute. And I asked her out for Saturday lol to the movies she said yes and she asked me what movies are on Im like doesn't matter we will watch something and then she said she would go to movies on saturday with me.

I said I would call her on Saturday to tell her the movie and ****. I think at my age 17 movies is best as she knows whats up and that I am interested so I think she knows what shes coming for.

3 possible scenarios

I get some hooking up
I dont get some
She flakes and calls me or something sayn she can't come.

Anyway I am going to dig into the punching bag in 20.
 

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never give up till you fvck her...than let her go...its a kind of revenge.. but you gotta tease her a lot t make it fast..
 
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