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[spiegel549]

Bro I live in Los Angeles and I use to be in the clubs of Hollywood Wednesday-Sunday. It is known that its very difficult to pull random women and dance with them, let alone leave with them.

Women watch, and women talk. If they see you asking every single girl in the club to dance its going to be a turn off. If you physically grab a girl, even by the hand, its going to be a turn off. Have a few drinks to get a nice buzz but don't get wasted, women can also pick up on that right away.

Sounds like your on E or some bad Molly man lol....your feeling energetic and good but now your feeling sick? Make sure to throw up man and get it all out of your system and don't leave your drinks unattended ever.

As far as approach making friends with the bartenders, bouncers, promoters etc is HUGE help. If your a regular the women will notice you talking to the staff and that your cool. Much easier to talk to them when they know your not some creeper trying to pump and dump it.

Like Mike said, its better to make less approaches then 20. Pick out 2-3 girls that you are really into and just go over and start a convo. I personally have been approaching groups of women for a while because it was part of my job so I am more comfortable then most with it, but you gotta just go over, be friendly, ask them how there nights going, start small chit chat and see who takes the bait.

I rambled a lot just now lol, but key things. MAKE FRIENDS WITH THE STAFF. Bartenders, shot girls, bouncers, bus boys, manager, promoters etc.

I went on a date last night and took a girl to a club in Hollywood that I know EVERYONE. We cut the line, didn't pay for a single drink, promoter gave us a free table with a bottle. This girl thought I was in the mob or something haha. but the point is, I go into a place and everyone knows me so I don't look like a creeper.

Make friends with the staff, don't get drunk, rock on. :rockon:

 

[Cerwin Vega]

I really hope I wasn't on E. I'm a big health freak, never smoked (not weed nor cigarets) and I drink only when I go out.

This was my first time clubbing, to be honest I really couldn't talk to girls without screaming ANYWHERE as the club was full of very loud speakers, even at the bars.

When approaching, I'm strictly talking about girls who are on the dancefloor, you can't talk to them! Only body language.

I saw a lot of girls dancing in pairs or 3-4 girls together, how to approach a group of dancing girls and isolating one without looking like the average creep? I was searching for videos and couldn't found anything related.

 

[spiegel549]

When I was doing the club scene a lot like I said the only way to not look like a creeper is make friends with the staff. Another great thing is go with female friends. I would always go with female friends and start dancing with them, then other women would notice and then think "oh okay this guy seems okay" so then when you approach a girl she is more willing to dance with you.

Bro straight up the club scene blows for meeting women. I personally love dancing but I won't go anymore unless I am going with a group of friends that include some girls I can dance with. It makes approaching way easier and less creepy.

You need to go to bars. I don't know where you live but in LA they have a ton of bars/lounges. Those are the best. Less loud, easier to hear each other, and girls are more open to talking to new guys.

The club club's you should only go with a group of friends, or a chick. If you don't know any of the staff it makes it a lot harder too.

Try some new spots bro!