"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rejected kino and say they have a bf. why did we go out

joe45

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so far i had 5 dates all with japanese fob esl girls. i number close them and all and we wallk to park, go play frisbee. as we talk and walk and get to know each other better i do simple kino . touch on arm, pat on back, and grab their hand to say lets go look at the water. they reject my kino to holding hands, my arm around them, simple light touches and sitting too close to them. also they all say but one said i have a bf and ur just a friend. had a few go into detail how much they love their bf and no no we are just friends
after rejection i still do the kino but still i can see by body language its going nowhere. crossed arms, looking to leave....etc

why the heck they go out with me then if you have a bf. what kind of guy goes direct saying ur cute and all and expect it to be just a friend to friend walk around park

im glad i didnt spend any $ on them. is this a japanese girl thing or what. i got a day 2 with a chinese fob girl tommorrow and lets see.

i even did the story telling about how i heard and saw my neighbours having sex in middle of night, or what she thinks of pda, kissing of first datel, dating history, how she likes being kissed........stuff i read on this forum to get them aroused and into sex.esclate to ensure sex on first date forum thread. and nothing she even said if i was a pervert. this is first time i tried this though. might again try again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No matter the nationality, any woman can be an attention wh0re.

From what Judge nismo sees, these girls aren't attracted to you romantically and/ or sexually. They're just not that into you. They don't find you attractive. :eek:

If these women were actually into you, they wouldn't have boyfriends. Sorry. :(

It seems like you need to be sexual from the start.

Update me.
 

joe45

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nismo-4 said:
No matter the nationality, any woman can be an attention wh0re.

From what Judge nismo sees, these girls aren't attracted to you romantically and/ or sexually. They're just not that into you. They don't find you attractive. :eek:

If these women were actually into you, they wouldn't have boyfriends. Sorry. :(

It seems like you need to be sexual from the start.

Update me.
how do youy be sexual with them from the start
 

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You first meet a woman and your chopping up game with her you must make it obvious that you are feeling her and would like to get to know her better on a one on one tip. You must be bold. Tell these girls that you think she is looking fly and that you need to hang out one on one to get to know her better.

Be bold and straight to the point. Even if she claims she has a boyfriend on the date play it cool. There is a reason she is going out with you. I would just push her until she has got to sh!t or get off the pot.
 
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