Rejected because of my career

[j-flex]

yesterday i went to a party where everybody was an engenieer, i didnt know anybody so me and my wing man started socializing with all the chicks.

i met almost all girls there, some would approach me and talk real cool, then they asked me which career i study and i told them i studied international business and they would tell me things like, your career is very easy i could never study things like that and leave!!.

how weird is that, after a good rapport, they would get a turnoff and leave just because my career is relatively easy.
and i have to tell you, that party was full of ugly-nerd AFCs, including the girls.


anybody experienced something like that?

 

[MotownMack]

Honestly, I suspect it was just low IL, and not really your career.

While I think girls are more apt to be more picky about a guys career-as a guy, there are a few careers I have no interest in dating- doctors, lawyers, and cops.

Doctors work a lot and tend to be a little more serious than what I am into.

Attorney's also work like crazy, tend to be constantly stressed, and are in a field where they are regularly forced to rationalize unethical or questionable dealing.

Cops - I know this is a turn on for some women who date male cops, but not for me. I don't really engage in illegal activities, but the idea of a cop is just a turn off for me, whether it would be worry about her getting hurt on the job, or just her being on a power trip.

Yes, I know these are generalizations, and 2 out of 3 sometimes make good money-but it would not increase their value for me.

Anyway, all that being said-international business is just a business degree, and could encompass any of a million jobs, so it's not like they'd know exactly what you'd be doing for a living when you're graduating. I don't know where people got the idea that it's easy-the business school I attended was not easy at all.

To top it all off, you haven't even got the degree yet- and kids change majors all the time. So for someone to exclude for this at this point is just retarded.

 

[Entropy4]

She's shallow.

You're better off without her.

 

[Wodan]

Dont know if its different in america but engineers are really undervalued, The actual word engineer is derived from the latin of genius.

And generally they are extreme introverts, to say someone is intelligent is an extremely broad statement, and I think if someone is intelligent in one area, specificly maths you can often expect them to have a lower social intelligence (yes i am an engineer).

I tend to stay away from my coursemates, a few of which have actually told me they have antisocial traits. Personally im more intrested in the business/management side of engineering so i find myself getting along better with business students. You will get people that are up theyre own arse but i wouldnt worry about it, its theyre loss.

Ive experienced it in the party situation with engineers also. All i can say is that im not going to anymore engineering parties lol, they tend to have no clue about expressing themselves, whether it be fashion or conversation.

 

[Ken785]

Ill bet if you told her you were pre-law or pre-med they would have had high interest versus you saying you were a Theatre major or something...remember chicks think about the future and survival and procreation, she cant do that with you if she knows youre going to be broke, which also can make her a gold digger...but oh well...it is what it is.

 

[Wodan]

More like they take life too seriously.

Disqualify anyone that doesnt meet all theyre requirements, and earning more money than they do is one of those requirements.

 

[slaog]

While I think girls are more apt to be more picky about a guys career-as a guy, there are a few careers I have no interest in dating- doctors, lawyers, and cops.
Doctors work a lot and tend to be a little more serious than what I am into.

Attorney's also work like crazy, tend to be constantly stressed, and are in a field where they are regularly forced to rationalize unethical or questionable dealing.

Cops - I know this is a turn on for some women who date male cops, but not for me. I don't really engage in illegal activities, but the idea of a cop is just a turn off for me, whether it would be worry about her getting hurt on the job, or just her being on a power trip.

Yes, I know these are generalizations, and 2 out of 3 sometimes make good money-but it would not increase their value for me.

I feel the same about those jobs.

Any woman who puts her career ahead of everything else is not for me.

 

[Latinoman]

I won't go into a serious relationship with lawyers and cops because they could make my life miserable if things don't go their way.

Of course, hairdressers, bartenders, waitresses are out of the question for serious dating too.

 

[COD]

HERES A TIP ..........did u ever just make up stuff and run GAME ON THEM.....like what.glad u asked..........

i am trying to be a Gynocologist...........you girls be checked out lately.

I am premed...........right now studying cunninlingus.

I am a lawyer.......I can make it stand up in court


SHEESH DUDE.............if they ask what you do........PRRRR FECT OPPORTUNITY TO BUST ON THEM.

ANYTHING BUT THE TRUTH.............have you learned nothing about attraction.

PRICE ON AN EDUCATION........A BAZILLION DOLLARS, PRICE OF THE ART OF SEDUCING WOMEN..........PRICELESS!!!!!!!!!!

SO LETS RECAP..................SCHOOLS IN.........

HER: SO WHAT ARE YOU STUDYING........

YOU: right now I am studying your butt in those jeans......why u wearing them two sizes too small.

YOU: Gynocolgy...wanna see what I learned so far.......

YOU: ADVANCED NUCLEAR TOP SECRET STUFF...I could tell ya but its a matter of national security

YOU: BOOTYOLOGY

YOU: MECHANICAL ENGINEERING...........but in my downtime I am a male stripper.

NUFF SAID..................remember anything butt boring!!!!!

 

[Latinoman]

Why lie? Why be ashame?

All he has to do is say that he is a STUDENT like HER and ANYONE ELSE in the damn place!

 

[j-flex]

Why lie? Why be ashame?

All he has to do is say that he is a STUDENT like HER and ANYONE ELSE in the damn place!

after a while i did that. lol

still didnt get any booty.

i told some girls the truth, others i told an engieneer, others i told them i was a hobo.

the ones i told the truth were very harsh, the other ones had low interest.

 

[Yahooey]

IMO, if you are giving a direct answer, then you have to make it clear what your career objectives are and make it sound more interesting. Studying International Business sounds generic and it does not have a job directly associated with it e.g. Engineering students will be engineers, law students are studying to become lawyers. What is your goal in studying International Business? If you were to reply that you are preparing yourself to become the CEO of a multinational corporation, you would probably generate a lot more interest and explaining the steps (studying international business) would make for better conversation.

 

[Mavrick]

i met almost all girls there, some would approach me and talk real cool, then they asked me which career i study and i told them i studied international business and they would tell me things like, your career is very easy i could never study things like that and leave!!.

Do not let anyone define who you are or how smart you are. If they are so insecure that they have to put you down to feel better, then you're better off without them. As soon as you show indifference to what these girls have to say, they will become interested. If you let them affect you with their put downs, you have just transfered your power to them and you appear even less appealing.

 

[MotownMack]

Curious, why do you eliminate Hair Dressers? Are they usually AWs?