"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Reinventing myself at college---how?

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In a little under a week, I'm headed off to Amherst College to begin my "higher education." It's a couple thousand miles from where I live now,and it'll be a totally new start. I want to capitalize on it.

Any advice/books to read? I'm downloading Carnegie's "Make Friends and Influence People" as we speak.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slick101

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Magic Bullets...
48 laws of power...
Create social Circles when You Just start off...

Gte as many hot woman as You can into your own social circle and sum guys...

MAKE FRIENDS WITH THEM.... dont try to seduce them...

Your college experience will be amazing if you do that on first date

you can PM me for more details
 

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You want to reinvent yourself?

Forget all the other crap you're hearing, you are being blinded.

You have to work on yourself, forget making sure you make friends with cool guys and hot girls on the first day.

Work on YOURSELF.

If you want to become a new person, take on a new lifestyle.

Pick up new sports, start weight training, try out new activities, become involved in things you weren't before.

If you want to change yourself, you need to take a good look deep into yourself, learn about yourself and understand what it is needed to change in order for you to reach your goals.
 

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How to create a better social circle

I assume u are talking about getting a better social circle, getting in to all the parties and being known as the guy to call and hang out with, and the one that all the girls want to date

Your first few weeks are important, everyone is new and getting to know each other.

1st be friendly w/ everyone and get everyones number.

*Get people together to go out.* Call up ppl that you think are cool and do stuff. Ex. movies, work-out, get somethin to eat, studyin, *parties*. If u get a bunch of ppl together to go to the movies, it social proofs you as the cool guy. Also, later on, ppl will invite you to do things w/ them to return the favor. This lets you meet more ppl.

Become friends with a lot of girls. DONT hit on them. There are sooo many girls out there. If you are a cool guy, they will introduce you to their friends and you get instant social proof. It makes things a lot easier. Also, some girls join sororities :)

After awhile, ppl will form groups that they hang out w/ 90% of the time. When, u have met some cool ppl, just start inviting the same ppl out over and over again. As they get comfortable around each-other, they will form a nice small group.
*Note*: One thing I have noticed is that u need a small group of ppl for them to get comfortable around each-other, somethin like 3-4 ppl. So you invite, say, just 3 ppl out w/ you to dinner. Start the conversations, then SHUT UP and let them talk and gain rapport.

I hope this helps, if u need more help/clarification PM me
 

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Hypnotica has a program called reinvent yourself. you shoudl try it. :trouble:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It depends of who you are right now. If you're Shy don't expect to be a social butterfly or something like that. Focus on getting good grades and asking a lot of questions in classes and everything will be fine.
 
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