Reigniting Interest

[Jizz]

How do you reignite intrest in a girl who did like you at one point but now is in a non serious relationship?

Shes been on my mind all week

We live quite far apart, so when we were first intrested in each other, we agreed that nothing could happen because a serious relationship wouldnt work

So after a couple of weeks of hardly any contact i find out shes in a non serious relationship, with some guy, am i right in thinking a non serious relationship is basically just about the sex?

i know nothing serious can happen, but i just want to finish what we started when we were first intrested in each other, if we lived closer we would of been in a relationship as we got on well, were attracted to each other and we talked most nights about sex and things we wanted to do, but couldnt coz of the distance

when we met up, her friends came (they had too, there my friends too long story) and we couldnt really get enough alone time to do anything, was a shame then we agreed it wouldnt work because of the distance before i could get her alone

shall i tell her that what im thinking about

i wanna tell her something like "i know you have a bf, but you said its not serious, do you still think about the things we talked about coz i do and i wanna meet you again and get them out of my head, i know we wouldnt work but theres no reason why we cant have a lil fun, as long as we both realise thats all it is!"

now ive read that through it sounds a lil afc but its what im thinking about!

cheers

 

[Wiesman44]

your AFC, you need a little help here.


Stop thinking about women. It does you no good. You have one opportunity to give off a good impression. First impressions on a date, whether they be alone or with a few other friends, are essential. Basically, you weren't worthy enough for her to continue pursuing her.

All of a sudden, you try to renite her interest. She'll just laugh and know she has you.

 

[muttley]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
your AFC, you need a little help here.


Stop thinking about women. It does you no good. You have one opportunity to give off a good impression. First impressions on a date, whether they be alone or with a few other friends, are essential. Basically, you weren't worthy enough for her to continue pursuing her.

All of a sudden, you try to renite her interest. She'll just laugh and know she has you.

The last paragraph that you have said is so true.

Dude you have oneitis, its a common problem. First up i know what your thinking. hey she liked me at one point, so she will like me again. Or that you can rekindle what ever you have. Bro i been through this and i know the answer. Your not gonna like it.

Ill tell you about me and my story so u can learn from someone who has been through this and not make the same mistakes i did.

The girl was hot, worked with me,she liked me ALOT. tried to hook up dates with me TWICE but i was too AFC to know what she really meant. I brushed her off without knowing. Girl carried on liking me and pursuing me and showing more and more interest. I finally realised that she liked me but was too AFC to say yes to her. By now she lost interest because it was my fault for being a scared lazy dumbass. I dont blame the girl.

My interest grew for her, i had been placed in the friendszone because thats where she sees me as most comfortable now. Im still there now. My interest grew , she moved on. She had a string of boyfrends , shes hot , has loads of guys after her. I think shyt i missed out. She is dating. I wanna spill my guts to her and tell her i like her, i think she saw me telegraphing my interest. This pushed her away. Now shes distant but getting better. Like yours shes moved away but comes back every week. It was over before it started.

Morals of the story?

- strike when the irons HOT
- girls are different, they move on easier
- your probably in the friends zone
- theres nothing u can do to change her mind, unless its extra-ordanairy
- She may get off on knowing u like her
- dont tell her your feelings, it creeps her out.



oh yeh, i did tell u that i know the answer to this didnt i, and i also said that your not gonna like it. Well here it is. FORGET HER, FORGET HER AND GET OUT OF THIS HOLE.

Your not gonna listen to me now are you?

Your gonna try to "get her back". I tryed all that shyt bro.

- did the ganji game thing ( ie dissapeard for months without contact) didnt work.

- tryed to make her jelaous, didnt work.
- tryed to be really nice to her friends, didnt work

- tryed making her jealous by telegraphing my interest in another girl, didnt work

FORGET HER , at least you know that she did want u at one point and next time you wont be so blind and actually make things happen. Thats how i learned but i lost a great girl at the expense of it. I learned the hard way, which is the BEST WAY. There are more girls in my destiny that will be better than this girl, so there are more girls in your destinay that will be much better than your girl.


FORGET HER and MOVE ON

peace